i’m not your trauma dump friend! i like to go places & have fun too! don’t only come to me when yo life bad or with bad news!!! then be out hours later enjoying yourself with people you can’t vent to or have serious conversations with.. IT’S TIRING !
Next August , 2027 at this exact time, you will be standing in the places you used to dream about. Living your most beautiful rich life. Send this to yourself.
This is arguably the best part of being human, deciding what you want out of life and then going for it. It not only requires you to be picky but also very dedicated and disciplined. It’s fun and stressful all at the same time. The whole point is to make something of yourself.
Having discernment is so weırd because how do I explain to someone who did nothing to me that their spirıt is NOT compatible with mine. I can feel it. My body tenses up, I become reserved. Then there’s other people I meet and instantly feel warmth and familiarity.
You learn a lot about someone by what they do after they hurt you. some people apologize. some reflect. some actually change. and some rewrite the whole story so they never have to admit they were wrong. that part tells you everything.
I'm so glad i got away from so many ppl... like they literally hated me in my face & i was too blind to see it bc i was so busy showing them love...
This is really a microcosm of the Black experience. Imagine you’re chilling on your phone in line & minding your own business. Now you’re in a viral video bc some weird White lady forgot her umbrella & is making it YOUR problem
to have such a positive sibling dynamic or even cousin dynamic is actually beautiful & you’re blessed to not even be able to comprehend any other way lmao
BUT I also think people sometimes romanticize blood being thicker than water to the point where they don’t recognize that family isn’t always automatically synonymous with safety for everyone.