Maths is the language we invented to speak about relationships that exist before language.A tree does not know geometry.A planet does not know calculus.A wave does not know a sine function.And yet the tree grows in patterns, the planet moves in curves, the wave repeats in rhythm.
2022 — fallen
2023 — attached
2024 — patient
2025 — broken
2026
2 Oct — borrowed peace
3 Oct — the last illusion
4 Oct — anxiety
5 Oct — panic
6 Oct — enlightenment
7 Oct — reset
Mark the date.
A balloon has a face, eyes, smile, a purpose to be sold and a relationship with someone who calls it theirs. But no identity, awareness, intention, happiness and sense of belonging. It has almost everything we associate with a life except life itself. How different are you?
It's a game. You didn't choose the board. You didn't choose your starting position. You didn't choose the pieces you were given.But you still have moves. We often make choices inside circumstances we did not choose. Freedom is the ability to choose within the constraints.
We understand our own degradation. You can understand yourself perfectly and still be unable to escape yourself.
If a person understands their suffering but cannot stop creating it, are they guilty, sick or trapped?Intellect and actions are moving in opposite directions.
When you are thirsty and drink water, sensory signals reach the brain and help reduce thirst immediately, well before the water has been absorbed and changed your osmolality. The physiological correction comes later.Maybe we are more deeply shaped by anticipation than we realize.
You don't add or remove darkness, you add or remove light and darkness is simply it's consequence.Don't spend all your energy fighting ignorance, hatred, fear, or confusion.Increase knowledge, love, courage and clarity.
A person can begin moving toward an act before consciously admitting the desire behind it. When did the action actually begin, in the act, in the thought, or much earlier?
Manipulation needs participation.
When you refuse to react, the manipulator loses their leverage.
what usually follows:more abuse, accusations,guilt and drama,meant to draw you back in.They provoke, you react, reaction tells them which buttons work.
People often treat explanations as openings to negotiate. I used to think learning to say "no" was enough. It wasn't, unnecessary explanation turns your boundary into a debate. You lose control when you feel responsible for making everyone comfortable with your "no".
The moment your identity depends on public opinion, you have become public property.
A compliment inflates you. An insult destroys you. You rise and fall with the moods of others.
You are not insecure because people judge you. You are insecure because you promoted their judgments into your identity.Your identity is outsourced to the spectators who were only passing through your field of awareness.
Perhaps attachment begins the moment we believe that what we've nurtured must eventually belong to us. Some relations are like rented homes, not matter how much you decorate them, they're not yours.