I am a trans woman.
I am pleased with my body and how I was endowed by my creator.
I enjoy having a cock.
I don’t care if you don’t like it.
I know I will never be a “woman” in the way you define “woman.”
I know my existence bothers you.
I live the way I want to.
I still don’t care if you don’t like me; that’s your problem.
I was not put on earth to please you nor anyone else.
You can’t have a normal conversation with a trans person without reciting a rehearsed and hateful rhetoric. 😘
Prove me wrong 🤔
I’m really exhausted. 😩
The past few days have been emotionally draining, and I’m trying my best to stay positive through it all, but it’s been a lot. I don’t want to be in this position, and I can’t wait for this chapter to be over.
Thank you to everyone who has shown me kindness, shared my fundraiser, donated, or simply checked in on me. I appreciate you more than you know. 🤍
also it is not as if embassies are picking trans women and giving them visas to travel! You don't travel because you're trans, if anything from experience it is incredibly much harder to travel as a trans woman. Passport? State documents? Finance? jobs?
these airheads could
You fools will want to address (sometimes genuine) concerns about trans people and then start being transphobic/ misgendering them and when we call you out for that, it's "we can't call out trans people without being attacked."
They are not your problem in this Nigeria. REST
One thing I’d really like to remind everyone of is We don’t all have to agree or even be friends, but kindness goes a long way.
I’d also really appreciate it if we didn’t lose sight of why I reached out in the first place. My move-out date has already passed, and I’m still trying to raise the funds I need to secure housing. That’s the reason I started asking for help.
To everyone who has shared my fundraiser, donated, checked in on me, or sent words of encouragement, thank you so much. Your support has carried me through an incredibly difficult time, and I’m deeply grateful.
If you’re able to continue sharing or donating, it would mean the world to me. Thank you for standing with me. ❤️
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For everyone saying “get a job,” I wish it were that simple.
I still don’t have access to my academic results because I’m trans, and that has made formal employment much harder. Instead of giving up, I moved to Lagos and spent the last three years building a life from scratch. I bake, I create UGC, I work with brands, I vend at events, and I keep looking for every opportunity I can find.
Crowdfunding has never been a replacement for work. It’s been what has helped me survive while I continue working towards stability.
If you’re able to support me, whether by donating, sharing my fundraiser, buying my cookies, or booking me for UGC work, I’d be incredibly grateful. Every bit of support helps me keep moving forward. ❤️
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To everyone who has supported me over the past months, thank you.
I’ve seen a lot of conversations about my crowdfunding, and while I don’t believe I owe the internet every detail of my life, I do think the people who have supported me deserve transparency.
The support I’ve received has gone toward keeping me housed, safe, healthy, and able to keep working.
It has covered my rent, transportation, healthcare, and daily living expenses. Living on the island is expensive, and because of the risks I face as a trans woman in Nigeria, I often rely on ride-hailing services instead of public transportation for my safety.
Some of that support also allowed me to invest in my work. I was able to buy an oven and a refrigerator, which helped me continue growing my baking business. I’ve continued making and selling cookies, while also creating UGC content and working with brands. Those opportunities bring in income, but they are not yet enough to cover all of my expenses consistently.
When you see me attending events, it’s often because I’m vending, networking, creating content, or pursuing work opportunities. Those posts don’t show the full picture of the costs behind getting there or the work that happens before and after.
Food, transportation, rent, healthcare, and running a small business are all expensive. That’s where the support has gone.
The goal of every donation has always been the same: to help me survive while building a more stable future where I rely less on crowdfunding, not more. Every step I’ve taken, every piece of equipment I’ve bought, every brand partnership I’ve secured, and every product I’ve sold has been part of working toward that goal.
If you’ve supported me in any way, whether by donating, sharing my posts, buying my cookies, hiring me for content creation, or simply encouraging me, I’m deeply grateful. Thank you for believing in me and giving me the chance to keep building my life.
What’s the difference between you that believe transness is a decision that people just wake up and make and homophobic people that think homosexuality is a decision that can be made ?