Oluwatobi

Civil Engineer. Writer. Farmer. Fitness enthusiast. progressive, positive and a believer. #CFC 💙

[Oluwatobi @OBpizzle]

Life no easy my brother, you dey find your own, me I dey find my own

If I dey keep my distance dey Abuja, make I Dey Lagos o

And when I hear better news about you and smile, e dey ginger my soul

I dey see your struggle……….

[ً @artfuIchaos]

I love people who naturally just have morals, manners, self awareness, common sense and consideration.

[27. @dimvji]

you just have to get really good at continuing

[Bella Hadidn’t @SkinwithLolami]

I have no interest in being around people who assign malicious intent to every mistake. If grace is reserved for no one, not even the people in your life, I can only imagine how harshly you judge strangers

[Sporting King @sportingking365]

Life is fucking hard. If e easy for you just be very grateful. No be you na better grace.

[Man of Letters. @Letter_to_Jack]

The best way to measure kindness is to note how people treat others, especially those they hold power over, when they believe no one is watching.

If you judge someone’s kindness solely by how they treat you, while ignoring how they treat others, you are in for a rude shock.

[Muna @Munalozy]

This is why I won't accept you for who you are because I'm constantly working on myself.

[Emmy🎀° @princess_ehmy]

I remember a day I had a big f!ght with my hubby.

I knew I was wrong, but as usual I was claiming tough girl😂😂

It took us 3 days and the issue was becoming serious.

I started praying serious prayers o.
I was like "God please touch my man's heart so he won't be angry at me again and let's reconcile"

I was praying this prayer everyday but the matter was even becoming worse😂
We didn't talk for days. I kept praying. When I was supposed to humble myself and just apologize. I was praying😁😁

I'm laughing because each time I remember this scenario,I always tell myself that we have the power in our hands to make some things work.

That's how on valentine's day,I just wrote him a long text apologising and I reassured him of my love and loyalty.

Immediately he read the message, he reached out and was like "Babe I'm so sorry too, I took everything too far, I miss you "😂

Haaaaa!!! Almost 4 days of fight I prayed and only an apology solved it.

The bottom line is this, there are so many broken homes that wouldn't have been broken if only we humble ourselves and talk things over. Ego and pride has really d£stroyed so many homes and it's so sad.

There is a place for prayer. Maybe for a sickness, prayer for divine intervention or maybe a change of character, prayers for a good job or a contract and if there will be prayers for such issues, it should be a joint and agreement prayer with both couples heart involved🤲

So the answer is NO, prayers can't fix every marriage problem.
Some require humility,our work,our logic and our sincerity to handle it.

[Man of Letters. @Letter_to_Jack]

When emotions take over, and for very valid reasons, the application of logic requires great caution, especially if you are not in the primary decision-making seat.

We are emotional beings. When pushed to the limits of emotional distress, our ability to see clearly gets compromised. In such moments, what appears obvious to an observer may be difficult for those directly affected to recognize or accept.

[kenna @kennagq]

This is the kind of heartbreak we need to start the weekend

[Chelsea FC @ChelseaFC]

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[Man of Letters. @Letter_to_Jack]

Arsenal fans used to troll us with memes of Fofana crying.

NOW WE ARE GOING TO MAKE THEM CRY WITH MEMES OF GABRIEL CRYINGGG

INJECT INTO MY VEINSSSSS

[Bella Hadidn’t @SkinwithLolami]

“People know exactly what they’re doing”

Until it’s you. Then suddenly, your intentions matter. Everyone wants grace for themselves, but rarely wants to extend it to others.

[love, ife. @ifeoluw_a]

i’ve removed ego and shame from the experience of liking people. me liking someone is my personal decision, but that doesn’t mean they’re obligated to like me back, desire me or act according to my expectations. i don’t see rejection or lack of reciprocity as an attack on my self worth.
and by “shameless,” i mean i’m not carrying embarrassment on my head because i like someone. whether i text first, express interest or end up liking them more than they like me, it is what it is. i’m not going to start acting emotionally detached just to protect pride. i also think people who genuinely find mutual attraction, emotional alignment and timing at the same time are very lucky because it honestly doesn’t happen as easily as people make it seem.

[Oku @oku_yungx]

“What do you do when you fall out of love with your husband for not providing?”

Every man in the world needs to see this. 💀

[Adwoa Yeboah🪵 @Agonizo_mai]

I think everyone should be with someone they truly find impressive. To me, one of the greatest forms of romance is that genuine awe.

[y @ysuckme]

brick by brick. day by day.

[LAMP @dirtylamp3]

Can’t name a time I didn’t figure it out

[Femi Ote$ @realFemiOtedola]

Enjoyed a sunny morning yesterday cycling along the Lagos coast line at Eko Atlantic City. Happiness is free 🚲 …F.Ote💲