Normalize being very direct, very straight to the point and very assertive. A surprising amount of tension in adult life exist because people avoid saying what they actually mean.
High intelligence often comes with heightened pattern recognition. You start noticing social masks, forced conversations, performative friendships, hidden motives, emotional immaturity, and energy that feels draining instead of nourishing. Many highly intelligent people also have more active nervous systems, deeper inner worlds, and lower tolerance for superficial stimulation, so solitude can feel safer than constantly shrinking themselves to fit environments that don't feel aligned.
@aydot25 I hate when non black women are OVERLY excited to share that their ex boyfriends are racist/ have self hate issues…bc now if we ask you when he said that did you leave him?…it’s crickets bc in the moment it definitely boosted their ego.
Islam is the only religion that pulls this off, gathering people from every ethnicity, culture and country in one spot, all dressed the same. especially in Muzdalifah, you can’t even tell who’s rich or poor. going against all this has done the world dirty.