A lot of laziness is rooted in fear. People are so afraid to do something that they form a habit of doing nothing. They sit idly by and become jealous of the people who have the life they would like to have.
When you're a little too understanding, people become a little too inconsiderate of you. Some people donโt realize how much theyโre taking from you because you make carrying the weight look effortless. You care so deeply that you explain away any behavior that still hurts you.