I believe that people's actions can make it clear that they have no respect or regard for you, regardless of what they say. Their actions clearly indicate that they don't value you. When you notice this, take it for what is. Remember, actions speak louder than words.
And this is where you'll lose a lot of men... in all relationships women are only sinking their time, while men have their legacy and lives at stake. His language is easier. Where has listening to your friends and acquaintances gotten you so far?!