My sister named her baby after my stillborn daughter. (Part 2 Update)
I didn't think my post would blow up like this. Thank you to everyone who said I'm not crazy. To the people calling me evil, I hope you never have to bury your child.
After I posted, my sister called me.
Not to apologize. To yell.
She said "Did you really go post our family business on X for strangers? You are so attention seeking. It's always about you and your dead baby."
Her words. Her exact words. "Your dead baby."
I hung up and threw up.
My mom then sent a family group text. Without me in it. My cousin screenshotted it to me.
My mom said: "Your sister is crying because of her sister's post. She just had a baby. She doesn't need stress. If she can't be happy for her niece, she shouldn't come to Thanksgiving."
was it covid that created this stunted development in gen z that makes them feel that connecting with people that aren't the exact same age as you should be taboo? are you all still stuck in 2020 and applying high school logic to early vs mid-late twenties?
I once had a gay friend who I loved dearly but who would regularly disappear on a night out to have three ways and gang bangs in the public toilets. With men he had just met that night. Raw.
I knew another guy growing up who came out as gay in his late teens, who does the exact same thing. His (public) social media feeds are dedicated to the explicit pornographic content he films in club bathrooms with men.
I had another gay friend who was HIV+ and made a habit of sleeping with other men without disclosing this fact to them prior. It was partially some shame, and partially he said he just didn't think it was any of their business unless they wanted to be in an actual relationship.
I had another gay friend... I had another gay friend... I had another gay friend... You know what? It's all the same story, because they all do the same thing and they all lead the same lifestyle.
There is zero lie or exaggeration to the insane extent of the sex habits of these men which far exceed all normal boundaries.
I was also in a relationship with a man who did not disclose to me that he was bi until we had been together for quite some time. We ended for other reasons but that always felt like an extreme violation. I later found out he got involved with a man (the ex of one his gay friends) whom he would suck off in exchange for free haircuts and meth. He has a girlfriend, who I don't believe is aware of this.
Another thing that all gay men that I have known have had in common is how they would perpetually brag about their favourite challenge - cracking "straight" men. Preferably men with wives or girlfriends. They would literally get off on knowing they stuck their filthy cock that had been God knows where into someone else's partner, and she didn't know about it.
Not only are these men sexually promiscuous to an extent that defies the imagination, and engage in a form of sexual activity that is documented to carry much higher risk of transmitting sexual diseases both because of the men's proclivities and the very nature of the sexual act, but for the most part they also have little regard for moral boundaries or the sanctity of relationships.
So yes, women are absolutely allowed to say that they don't wish to have sex with men who enjoy sodomising other men and deepthroating their penises, if that is their preference.
Your lifestyle is your lifestyle but you are not entitled to force that onto other people. Nor are others obliged to expose themselves to risk to make you feel comfortable. No is a complete sentence. Sexual boundaries are absolute.
You want to call me "biphobic" or "homophobic" for that? Go right ahead.
I think I'll be perfectly okay if you get enraged by a critique of something that God calls an abomination, actually.