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time to pivot.

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@ThendoRalph Honesty isn’t being rude

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice But honestly, if he did not want to face the truth I would just ignore him and walk away.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice If he was observably a woman, I would not lie to him.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice You’ve not explained why you aren’t not comfortable. You just say you aren’t.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice You are the only thing in the world that controls your brain. Nothing else in the world controls your brain. It’s entirely you.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice I’d also be able to verify that they are not what they claim they aren’t.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice You’d have to explain why you aren’t a woman though. The cisgender man usually can explain what a woman is, and why they are not that.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice I’d want you to reflect and answer the questions.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice How do you know you aren’t a woman? Feeling disconnected doesn’t mean you aren’t. I don’t care what others refer to me as, bc I can’t control them, and their views don’t define me.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice Basic respect would be being honest with you. And honestly there is nothing that being any sex is that defines who you are. That’s done by your actions:

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice What’s uncomfortable about it? What does being seen as a man provide that being seen as a woman does not?

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice Those are statements you’ve made. So what part of those things define your gender?

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice Why does it make you uncomfortable though? What’s wrong with it?

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice I’m still at a lost at what treatment you are seeking from others that “sees” you as something.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice You continue to communicate it’s the same. You argue that change in sex is good. You argue hormone levels of the opposite sex are good. These point to gender being defined by sex.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice How is it affirming it, if it’s not defined by it?

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice What would be best is to understand why you are stressed and address that. What’s wrong with being seen as a female? Why is being a female bad?

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice That damage is entirely self inflicted, and doesn’t have to exist: that’s entirely under individual control, and the best solution is to mitigate your own feelings, not to attempt to control the uncontrollable.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice Either way, you’d have to argue why it’s not a personal perception issue, and here you are indicating it is, bc the solution is how you feel and how you want to be treated.

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@CoreyT1221 @Daisycat32 @ariadotwav @14th_Choice Saying it makes you feel a certain way doesn’t explain how it’s related. That’s just your perception again.
What do you mean by seen? Is it a particular treatment you want from others?