Okwunna Obi

Man of God Romans 8:6
Recovering and Rebuilding the Foundation of Man-kind
Dialogue | Leadership | Faith

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

When you continue to put a bandaid on your emotions, it can potential-affect blood pressure, memory, self-esteem and increased risk of diabetes, heart disease and also lead to problems like aggression, anxiety and depression. GOD FORBID. Let the healing process start 🙏🏿

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Open Dialogue...
One thing for sure I have noticed about people, especially when dealing with a woman, as a man that is in tuned with his emotions, is that they don’t appreciate it when you speak on how you feel. They tend to do 3 of the following SWIPE...

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Some men tend to indulge in excessive drinking, smoking, drugs, sex, masturbation, abuse etc... They indulge in this so that they can numb their loneliness, pain, anger, jealousy, self-criticism, FEAR, greed, rejection, hatred. Pay attention to FEAR the worse of them all.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Self Regulation is regulating your “WillPower”. This the one you need to control and have control of. Control of your energy, presence, actions, communication, commitment etc. Will power is a by-product of emotions. This determines the life you want to live. I Can’t stress this😩

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Self Reflection is reflecting on your “Emotions” on how you feel and tracing it back to your thoughts. Emotions are by-product of thoughts. You can’t dismiss your emotions rather process it and use it to your advantage. It is a pathway to emotional intelligence. Major 🔑

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Self Awareness is being aware of your “Mind” it might be hard for you to control it but at the least be aware of it, thoughts are a by-product of your environment and what you feed your self on a constant basis, hard to control your environment but you need to be aware of it.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Conclusion...
We need to outnumber them because if not we will be emasculated completely by our women. A time will come when the tables will flip on us, is already flipping. (Men that don’t cry will cry) or you will just settle for the bottom feeders.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Open Dialogue...

The only reason we see most women on social media criticizing men or voicing their frustrations with men, is because that is their experience.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Conclusion...
We need to outnumber them, because if not we will be emasculated completely by our women. A time will come when the tables will flip on us, is already flipping. (Men that don’t cry will cry). I am just saying don’t shoot the messenger. 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Some conclusions ...
Bad men outnumber good men or they are out there more than the good men are out there(Also social media helps in portraying them more to the public). Now you as a good man you can’t continue to hide, make your face/character shine and influence other men.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Conclusion...
Bad men outnumber good men or is it they are out there more than the good men are out there. Now you as a good man you can’t continue to hide, make your character shine and influence more good men to come out and then turn the hearts of the bad men.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Popular Opinion...
You rather stick with the devil you know than the angel you don’t know. Meaning when all you have experienced in life is bad, when good thing finally comes your way, is hard to believe it or you think is fake. So you rather go with what you know and used to.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Popular Opinion...
You rather stick with the devil you know than the angel you don’t know. Meaning when all you have experienced in life is bad, then when good finally comes, is hard to believe it or you think is fake. So you rather go with what you know and used to.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Comments...
Repetition of information/experience has the power to empower or damage the subconscious mind.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Comments...
Repetition of information/experience has the power to damage or repair the subconscious mind. Once the damage is done is hard to clean up.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Comments...
Repetition can be dangerous especially when the thing you have experienced or been told on multiple occasions is based on false concept or ideology. It becomes hard to accept the truth because your belief system has already been established.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Comments...
Repetition can be dangerous especially when the thing you are experiencing is false or wrong. Now is har or impossible to accept the truth.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Assumptions ...
When you have experience or been told something’s in your life repeatedly, whether good or bad for too long. You start to believe that thing to be true or that is how that thing suppose to be.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Comments...
When you have experience something in your life repeatedly whether good or bad for to long, you start believing that thing to be true or that is how that thing suppose to be.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Question to ask...
Are good men in the hiding? Or good men don’t have swag/money/work/career? Or that good men have no game? What is it? Feel free to add yours...

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Question...
Good men don’t have swag/money/work/career. Or Good men have no game? What is it? Free to add yours.

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Questions to ask...
Why do most women feel that way about men in general? Is it that trashy men outnumber the good men? Or is it that women don’t recognize, appreciate or they look down on a good man when they see one? Why do they always end up with a trashy man?

[Okwunna Obi @ObiOkwunna]

Question...
Why do most women feel that way about men? Is it that trashy men outnumber the good men? Or is it that women don’t recognize, appreciate or they look down on a good man when they see one? Why do they always end up with a trashy man? Are good men in the hiding?