"Money is very important for love. You need it to do this and buy that and whatever"
But when it is time to pay bills, you say your money is your money and it is a man's responsibility blah blah blah.
You cant fake love. Love will always expose you - whether you're real or a joker. That is why societies where people actually love, money is never a factor. They just want to be with you, and you'll both figure life out together by working to sort bills and looking after each other.
Once money is more important to you than the person, you'll never be able to love them.