Research Assistant/Guide @tcreativemind1 ||Son||Younger Brother||Big Brother||Uncle||Masculinist||Non-stereotypical Gentleman||@Chelseafc||Football Fan
when a woman has interest in you … you wouldn’t have to stress urself . love evolves naturally. don’t marry if you haven’t found a woman that truly loves you. when she’s in love .. she never gets bored of u every seconds. she’s in love with all ur flaws and very clingy . i’ve experienced this and it’s the best feeling in the world . i’m currently enjoying it . men just look for a woman that’s in love with u , naturally she will spend her money without second thoughts.
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, “Never play fair in a game where others cheat.” It doesn’t mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they’ll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
20 rules for young men:
1. Never date a friend’s ex
2. It’s ok to go to the movies by yourself
3. Hygiene is more important than you think
4. Know the different between love and lust
5. Stay informed on what’s going on. Don’t be a sheep
6. Have a sense of humor but don’t joke about your dreams and goals
7. Study the types of people who upset you and why
8. Stand up to bullies. You’ll only have to do it once.
9. Don’t bully people weaker than you
10. Learn how to tell stories
11. Don’t complain. 80% of people don’t care about your problems and 20% are glad you have them
12. Be impressed by the things that matter
13. When coming across a successful person, talk less, ask more.
14. Leave a lasting impression after people meet you
15. Don’t feel guilty for being too ambitious
16. Be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones at some point of your life.
17. Always have some cash with you
18. Regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best.
19. Avoid porn at all cost.
20. You never marry a girl, you marry her entire family.
I apologize in advance if this applies to you but I sincerely believe that if you think Ronaldo was ever close to Messi, you are of an objectively lower mental status than me, something akin to a sea urchin or maybe a mussel.
1. Sending your pictures to people to post on their status on your birthday. If you’re important to them, you absolutely don’t need to do that BS.
2. Forgiving a cheating partner. It shows that you don’t think you deserve better. A sign of low self-esteem.
3. Listening to music and watching movies you genuinely don’t like or enjoy because of social media validation.
4. Pandering to a particular set of people by saying things you don’t even believe in just to gain their attention or approval.
5. Dating or marrying someone who doesn’t know how to cook.
6. Famzing or àss-kissing just to get close to someone you don’t even like for your own selfish interests.
7. Posting birthday wishlists.
8. Using money to impress or prove a point to someone who has made it clear, without mincing words, that they don’t like you.
9. Doing giveaways on social media when you have friends, family, and loved ones who are struggling.
10. Begging for love, sex, attention, care, and reciprocity.
11. Doing a BBL instead of going to the gym.
12. Trying to prove to an audience that
doesn’t care about you that you’re rich.
13. Frequently mocking, belittling, or judging people to feel superior by comparison.
14. People-pleasing: constantly sacrificing your happiness and comfort for people who wouldn’t do the same for you simply because you lack the courage to say NO.
15. The need to win every argument. You don’t want to learn; you always want to be right. And more often than not, you’re just loud, ignorant, and wrong.
There is a Japanese legend that says:
if you miss the bus, maybe you avoided the accident. If you got rejected, maybe you were saved from the wrong place. If they left, maybe they made room for who is coming. The universe protects you in ways that look like bad luck at first. Trust the detour.🍂
If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷♀️