eu gosto muito da ideia de ter tradições pequenininhas dentro de um relacionamento tipo um lugar especifico, uma comida, uma frase, uma musica, qualquer coisa que não parece importante pra ngm de fora mas que conta uma historia inteira pro casal
✧・゚ earth signs — taurus, virgo + capricorn ✧・゚
love message ❤︎
there’s a quiet shift happening in your love life as july closes + august begins, and it’s asking you to become honest about the difference between a relationship that feels familiar + one that actually feels fulfilling. some of you have remained attached to connections because there’s history, attraction or the possibility of what it could become. but your heart is beginning to admit that potential cannot provide the emotional safety, consistency or tenderness you need in the present. you’re outgrowing the belief that love is proven by how much you’re willing to tolerate. you’ve been patient. understanding. dependable. you’ve given people time to figure themselves out while quietly placing your own needs on hold. but something inside you is changing. you no longer want to be the person who keeps everything together while secretly wondering whether anyone notices how much you need to be held too.
for those of you in relationships, conversations around emotional intimacy, effort + the future may be unavoidable. this is not necessarily because the relationship is ending. for many of you, it’s because the connection cannot continue growing through assumption. you need to know that you’re building toward the same life, not simply remaining together because the relationship has become comfortable. you may be asking for more affection, presence or reassurance. the right connection will not make you feel unreasonable for wanting to feel loved inside the relationship, not just loyal to it.