Deseree McFarlane

Writer/editor extraordinaire, dog fan, 150+ lb loser, brain tumor survivor, diva in training, funny girl, community servant, and aspiring world traveler!

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A3: No response is indeed a response. If he can go weeks (or even a few days) without communicating with you, he's doing fine without you. Don't waste your youth waiting for this person to come around.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A2: I’d contact the school. Her counselor, principal and athletic department need to know a 17-year-old senior is being pulled from class and practice to provide childcare. Document everything. And, as Candi Staton put it: “You’ll get the babies, but you won’t have your man.” 😬

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A1. Guess it takes a scammer to know one ... but yeah, you might have lost her anyway by not investing in her.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks Sounds like he's not interested. He also sounds like a stand-up guy because he could have easily played the (not-so-) long game; many others would have taken you up on your offer, slept with you and ghosted you. If someone is interested, you will know.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A4. Why do you need closure if you initiated the breakup? Think before you speak next time.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A1. I would consider this comment a threat and get to stepping.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A3. To quote one of the brothers from Tonight's Conversation, it sounds like you all are going to be one big happy family.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A3. Assuming your ex-wife and child were your victims, I can understand why a no-contact order is in place. I would seek alternatives before you end up serving for a "major" issue.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A1. So you're allowed to move on, but she's supposed to spend the rest of her life pining for you? Take several seats ...

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@Realrclark25 I am pulling for you and all those affected …. When God closes a door he opens a window. Nowhere to go but up!

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A2. If the caller was trolling, why the desperation to break the car window? This caller may not be the only person your husband has been on the DL with, just the first you found out about. Definitely take this time to explore your options. You can do bad by yourself!

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A1. You're out here with a side chick, and have the entire nerve to demand honesty in a relationship? Well, you thought you got Quina, and she got you big time! I love it!

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A2. Kudos to Jamilia for adjusting her crown and moving on like the queen she is! That obsession with her sounds like guilt to me; accept that you fumbled a good woman and move on. And please, do the next one better!

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A1. Leave her alone. It was her season (hoping it stretches out some) and instead of being happy for her and waiting for your own, you tried to block her light. Two things: You can't keep a good woman down, and karma never loses an address!

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A3. Next time get someone who can be a lady in the streets … or better yet, stop cheating! Hope the wife finds out when you can’t go back to this chain for your anniversary. Everyone’s theme song in 2026 should be, “you got one time to embarrass me” (probably wasn’t the first).

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A4. Get some melatonin for your sleep issue -- you don't need a prescription and it is not habit forming. Oh, and leave these folks alone! Once they are in it's hard to get them out.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A3. Here's what to do: Thank God that you are not in your cousin's position. Let this man go and let an available man find you. Give Cousin Ebony a firm move-out date.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A4. Sis, that is your house. Go back and put them out. Everything fiance has done to you he will do to your daughter, and your DD needs to learn it takes more than grinning to make a relationship.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A3. I think you did dodge a bullet ... almost everything he did was suspicious. He (finally) showed you who he was ... delete the photo. You could be blocking your own blessings.

[Deseree McFarlane @OfficiallyDes]

@SixBrownChicks A1. I'd quit while you're ahead (not really). I'm sure that bootleg attorney knows that the truth is an absolute defense in a defamation suit and you have no case. Ex has moved on and you should do the same.