probably a less popular opinion but i do really think that being able to get literally whatever you want at all times of year from hundreds of producers in any supermarket was only ever going to be able to exist for an historical blink of an eye, utterly unsustainable
Sandal was upset at the vet yesterday, because nothing bad has ever happened to him so he thinks being weighed is a war crime, and the technician kept trying to soothe him by saying " awww, pobrecita chancleta" (literally, "poor little flip-flop"). he's never living this down
Knowing for sure deep down that im NB but refusing to change my labels/name bc i cant accept having everyone i know think about me differently even though literally nothing has changed about me nor is it going to, but people are still going to feel some way or another
@takeyourzoloft trauma is defined as anything that alters oneβs world view, which means something thatβs traumatizing for you might not be soemthing thatβs traumatizing for someone else. Trauma is not a competition and yβall have to stop trying to make it one.
@puppygranate Funny that this bugs him so much. When you can't treat someone like a woman or a man, you have to just treat them like a person- which often just means treating them like a man: the default, unmarked gender