If you're new here, welcome 🤝
I'm Ola 😊
On some days, you'll find me talking about relationships, human behaviour, personal growth and the realities of everyday life in Nigeria.
On other days, you'll catch me sharing about God, celebrating Liverpool wins (or fuming over the losses), arguing over football opinions or exchanging banter with my mutuals.
I'm just a young lad trying to make sense of life, share what I learn along the way, speak some hard truths and have meaningful conversations with good people.
I'm not just building an audience. I'm building a community where we can learn, grow and navigate life together.
If you've ever felt lost, hopeful, heartbroken, confused, stuck, healing or simply trying to figure things out, you'll fit right in here.
Glad to have you around ❤️
I pray for us this week, may God go ahead of us and make every crooked path straight. May our efforts bring results, your heart find peace, and our days be filled with favor. No bad news, no setbacks, only testimonies and quiet wins. This week will be kind to us. 🤍✨
Relationships/Marriages are rarely that simple.
Some people cohabit and divorce. Some don't cohabit and divorce. Some cohabit and stay married. Some don't cohabit and stay married.
The fact that some cohabiting couples divorce doesn't automatically mean cohabitation causes marital failure.
Marriage is influenced by far more than living arrangements before the wedding. Character, values, communication, conflict resolution, expectations, commitment and timing all play a role.
Some people know each other for years and still discover surprises after marriage. Others marry quickly and build something beautiful together.
Human beings are far too complex than any formula we try to create for relationships.
My friend just packed her bags and moved in with her man because she believes it will help them know each other better before marriage.
If cohabiting is the key to a successful marriage, why do so many couples who lived together still end up divorced?
Good Morning Mutuals 🌞
Happy Sunday!
As you begin this new day, remember that God's mercies are new every morning and His plans for you are good.
Take time to worship, reflect, and be thankful for the gift of life. Trust God with the week ahead, knowing that He is already making a way where there seems to be none.
May your Sunday be filled with blessings, love, rest, and divine favor.
Have a beautiful and blessed Sunday. 🙏