A girl tweeted at other girls to clean up after peeing, and half of the girls in the comments were talking about "you don't even tell men to clean after themselves too"
WTF are men in the conversation?
These same silly girls are the ones always quick to call people "men centred"
Husband is relaxing in the house, wife
is washing a bale of clothes outside under the sun. After this, she'll go and cook. They do this every Saturday and they both go to work from Monday to Friday. You see this kind of marriage? I reject it for all my female friends.
That girl is only 21 and committed suicide because a 44-year-old raped her.
Guess what? These guys are arguing whether she was a virgin or not.
God forbid you, lots.
In the last two weeks.
A man was arrested for harassing a girl on the street of Abuja just because the girl refused to “know him” better.
A 20yrs old girl took her own life after she was raped by a content creator who promised to help her monitize her page
A lecturer was filmed naked inside a bush when he was trying to get into inappropriate sexual activity with a female student.
There is a guy who’s been creating a silly content with an underage girl, saying she’s his wife and he’s grooming her, until he was threaten with course and he had to confess that they’re neighbours and it’s just content.
A male lecturer from Maryam Abacha University was beaten by a female student husband because this lecturer insisted on sleeping with her before he approves her project topic.
Mind you, all of this happened and made it to social media in the last 14 days and these are the only ones that made it to the internet, imagine many more that couldn’t make it to the internet?
You see, sometimes I understand the anger of some of these ladies to a reasonable extent, imagine living in constant fear of being raped, killed or harm just because you belong to a gender that is assumed and believed to be the weaker one.
May God keep protecting everyone out there.
Let me advise those of you young people in the corporate world.
If you have a colleague that both of you were mates in rank or position, and you were very close, and that colleague of yours later becomes your boss.
Do not say because you were once mates in position, then you think you can interact with him or her the same way.
Respect the authority that he or she is presently occupying and keep your distance.
Wait to see if he or she would still want you to be closer, before you know how to interact with them officially.
Your bosses take key decisions for the firm, even if that decision may affect you.
They have meetings that you're not privileged or qualified to attend.
If you keep trying to interact with that colleague simply because you were once close, you'll be shocked.
Where they're making decisions that may affect you, your once close colleague may throw you under the bus.
Especially if you work in a structured environment, where meritocracy is recognized over familiarity.
Your colleagues are mostly not your friends.
All of you are earning salaries just to get by.
Do your job diligently, so that your once close colleague that was at your level, will not be seen as trying to use his or her position to favour you unduly.
I didn't write this posts for illiterates or ignorant or entitled persons.
End.
when an already confirmed rape case is trending, do not talk about false rape accusation.
you have every other time to talk about false rape according, not the exact time a rape case is trending.
you can physically feel the pain in your heart
you go to sleep with it, you wake up and you have like 3 seconds before your brain remembers you’re heartbroken and you carry it again. everyday for like 6 months
I was in a keke when we passed my broda driving. I waved at him, he called me. He asked if I was going home, I said yes. He ask me to get down at the next junction so he could pick me up. I did exactly that. This man drove past me,left me there. I had to take another keke😭
I received an inheritance of almost ₦35 million in cash from my late father. My husband knew about the entire process, so when the money came, he sat me down and asked what I planned to do with it.
I told him I wanted to buy land, buy a car, register for my master's degree, and invest the rest in my business.
He became offended and asked, "So where do I come in as your husband? What do I get?"
I was genuinely confused, so I told him I didn't understand. He said I should forget about it. I continued making plans for the land and the car.
He stayed quiet and simply watched me. Then one day, he woke me up and said he didn't know I was this stupid. He said I had a husband and such a huge amount of money, yet I couldn't entrust it to him. He asked what impression I was trying to give people.
I was shocked. I asked him a simple question: "You expect me to hand over the money my father worked so hard for and left for me just because you are my husband?"
He flared up. The àŕgum£nt became so h£àted that he almost b£àt me. He told me to prepare myself for whatever happened next because he couldn't stay married to a woman who was not submissive. He said he would bring another woman into the house—one who would listen to him and respect him.
A few days later, his parents showed up at our home without informing me. In fact, I had just returned from work when I saw them waiting.
They spent hours preaching to me, insisting that I should transfer the entire inheritance to my husband. They said their family would never forgive me for such disobedience. My mother-in-law added that she had been b£gg!ng her son not to marry another woman because she believed I would eventually listen to her.
I felt extremely ùncomfortàble because it felt like an àmbùsh. I agreed with them and promised that I would transfer the money the following morning.
That evening, I carried my baby downstairs, pŕ£tend!ng I wanted to buy something. Instead, I left for a friend's house and switched off my phone.
Two days later, my mother came to my friend's house and stayed to help care for my son while I returned to work.
About a month later, I found a suitable apartment and paid for it.
I went back to my husband's house while he was at work and packed my belongings and my son's belongings. I also took every single item I had bought with my own money. That was when I realized I had purchased almost everything in the house, including our bed, kitchen appliances, television, and many other household items.
Ironically, my husband earned far more than I did, yet I was the one who spent the most. Looking back, I realized he had been freeloading off me.
I settled into my new home over the weekend. On Tuesday, while I was at work, the police came to arŕ£st me.
My boss accompanied me to the police station. My husband claimed that everything I had taken belonged to him and demanded that I prove ownership. However, he couldn't provide any evidence that the items were his.
One of my colleagues went to my office and brought my cooperative savings scheme records. Every item I bought had been purchased through my office cooperative, with every single payment deducted directly from my salary.
The following week, I served him with divorce papers.
That was when he started sending me endless messages, saying he couldn't live without me and that he had only thŕ£atened me because he wanted me to become more submissive.
We're now in court.
I'm done. #marriage
—Adetunji Foluke Olaitan on Fb
Allāhumma innī asʾaluka al-ʿāfiyah fī -dunyá wa-al-ākhirah allāhumma innī asʾaluka al-ʿafwah wa-al-ʿāfiyah fī dīnī wa-dunyāya wa-ahlī wa-mālī allāhumma ustur ʿawrātī wa-āmin rawʿātī allāhumma iḥfaẓnī min bayni yadayya wa-min khalfī wa-ʿan yamīnī wa-ʿan shimālī wa-min fawqī wa-aʿūdhu bi ʿaẓamatika an ughtāla min taḥtī.
"O Allah, I ask You for well-being in this world and the Hereafter. O Allah, I ask You for pardon and well-being in my religion, my worldly affairs, my family and my property. O Allah, conceal my faults and keep me safe from what I fear. O Allah, guard me from in front of me and behind me, on my right and on my left, and from above me. And I seek refuge in Your Magnificence from being swallowed up from beneath me."
Allahumma rahmataka arju fala takilni ila nafsi tarfata ‘aynin wa aslih li sha’ni kullahu la ilaha ila anta
“O Allah, I hope for Your mercy. Do not leave me to myself even for a blink of an eye. Correct all of my affairs for me. There is none worthy of worship except You.”
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I recite the above a lot. I recommend.
“When it's time for them to pray, they didn't joke with it. They prayed alot and recited Quran. They would never miss their prayers and when it's time to recite Quran, they would never miss it.”
If you are a Muslim, don’t be surprised by the above quote. This is the prophecy of the Prophet playing out in HD. These people fit every description of the Khawarij. The Prophet called them the dogs of Hellfire.
Long ago, the Prophet (peace be upon him) warned us about this group who would use extreme outward piety to mask dark and violent hearts.
He said:
يحقر أحدكم صلاته مع صلاتهم، وصيامه مع صيامهم، يقرءون القرآن لا يجاوز تراقيهم، يمرقون من الدين كما يمرق السهم من الرمية
"One of you will look down upon his own prayer when compared to their prayer, and his fasting when compared to their fasting. They will recite the Quran but it will not go beyond their collarbones. They will pass through the religion just as an arrow passes through its target."
Do not be surprised if they killed Mr. Michael Oyedokun and Deacon John Olaleye. No one is safe with them, not even the Prophet himself.
They were the ones who slaughtered the noble companion Abdullah ibn Khabbab alongside his pregnant wife. They are the same breed of extremists who assassinated Ali ibn Abi Talib.
This is to tell you that the number one enemies of Muslims are ISWAP, Boko Haram and co. They hijack the religion and use it as a cover for pure evil.
Their long prayers and recitations will not save them. Their punishment is coming. Justice will catch up with them in this life and the hereafter.
Allah knows best.
bro i just tire for some naija boys mehn, a man raped a virgin girl and the girl had to kill herself cos of shame and naija boys were posting the twerking video of the said girl to counter that she was not a virgin cos a virgin isn’t suppose to be twerking.
let even said she was not a virgin, what’s her virginity status had to do with her being raped?
ṣe oloribu l’ẹyin boys yii ni ?