Emeka the men you sat with are OGs. They didn’t tell you because they are capable of harming you but because of the future.
You are too slow and emotional to handle life lessons.
The Ego of a stupid man.
One thing you won't realize is how self-damaging this is for you as the man on the benefitting side.
Situations like these will keep depositing and growing your sack of insecurity and trust issues.
When you finally fall in love with a woman you genuinely love, your heart starts pounding if she misses your call twice.
Cos you already have a picture of what could be, floating in your head.