Love in itself, is sacrificial.
However, if you cannot tell your partner that you can't afford something because you fear they would leave you or behave badly towards you, you do not have a relationship. You can sacrifice for needs and emergencies, not wants.
If you have to starve to do it, it better be worth it. Above all, unrequited love is not love. It is foolishness.
machiavelli 7 laws of getting rich;
1. stop worshipping justice
2. get close to power
3. depend on your own arms
4. own a game
5. master incentives
6. protect your reputation
7. stay in the game
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A close mouth is a close destiny,i got my call up number and i have less than 4k to get things to go to camp, please help a poor orphan 🙏🙏.
I need to go for service so i can apply for graduate trainee programmes,get a job and better my life.
Major cheat code in life: Be the one who reaches out. Text first. Call first. Plan first. Initialize first. Most people wait to be chosen. Be the chooser. Connection requires initiative. Friendship requires effort. Love requires action. Stop waiting to be picked. Start picking. Initiative is attractive.
Some of you young men will regret not seizing the opportunity that I have provided for you (for many years) to find your future wives.
If you have someone like me as a mentor to many single ladies, you should count yourself lucky.
And I don't just say it, I shoe you examples using my own marriage.
While I agree that not all marriages are the same, but you must know that a woman is a woman, and a man is a man.
Too many young ladies listen to me and look up to me, and many are afraid to disappoint me.
Taking undue advantage of them will do you no good.
You have seen too many examples of failed marriages or relationships, and the shege that young women are showing to men in this generation.
In a community like this where despite all I say about women and their antics, you still see many woman associating with the page, it should tell you something.
You'll never meet them perfect.
But to a large extent, any young lady that has been under my mentorship for years, will not be a total red flag.
You just need to mold her into your specific shape.
Masculinity is shrewd.
Femininity is malleable.
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Burna was issued a warning; threatened to be killed years ago if he ever stepped foot in SA over his stance against AKA’s xenophobic stance. what did you all do about it? Instead you crucified your own. We did absolutely nothing.. They didn’t care. He took it like a gee; moved on and still became a global star. You all forgot ?
But my Nigerians will rather blame people that suddenly take a stance on an artiste that come from a country that constantly desecrate on your national identity and treat Africans in the most inhumane way. Nigeria is the republic of docile and complacent people. We only know how to blow grammar
If she prays for you, it opens doors for you
Whenever she’s angry at you, things start getting difficult for you
If you give her money and she’s happy with you, you start experiencing financial breakthrough
She’s your spiritual backbone and you don’t joke with her prayers because anything she says, God answers.
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Now you’re a serial cheater, they said she should ‘put you in prayers’ so you can stop your cheating ways🤓🤓 she gets angry and says you can never change and starts threatening to leave…
Suddenly your ‘spiritual pillar’ knows prayer doesn’t work that way🤓
Suddenly ‘anything she says, God answers’ becomes a myth.🤡
Listen to me…
In any form of togetherness between a Nigerian Man and a Nigerian Woman…
8 out of 10, the Man is the FOOLISH one.
Some of you don't go to church if you don't have money for offering. You mean you can't enter into the presence of your father if you don't have money to give him?
What is funny is that, this is not about God. You are ashamed that the strangers next to you will see you without offering, and judge you for it.
Train yourself not to become too emotionally attached to anyone because when they stop communicating or stop talking to you, you might not recover from it. Remember, every day people wake up with different feelings.
Remember to stay grounded, build your own happiness and protect your peace above everything else.
But who did this thing to most African Parents ?
They were literally against EVERYTHING except education and rel!gion.
You try to gym ? They’re against it
Playing ball ? Frown at it.
Want to be a musician ? Wahala!
Want to go and see your friends ? Problem.
Watching TV, body go dey bite them.
If it’s not about going to school or going to church/mosque back then, they don’t want to hear anything else.
As much as we want to understand that ‘they didn’t know better’, they were a little too closed-minded abeg.
Heck even when you’re just sleeping/resting, they complain like you’re committing an offence.. tf!
It is not your fault if you were born into a poor family. You had no say in your parents' marital decisions and finances. However, it is your fault and a shame if you are going into a relationship with your mate or senior brother's mate and putting your father's responsibility on them.
Regardless of your father's finacial reality, you are his responsibility. The pressure you're mounting on your mates, mount it on your old man. You cannot be understanding of your father's struggle or financial limitations, and be brokeshaming your age mates or killing them with pressure to foot your bills. If it is easy, why are you not footing your own bills yourself? Do you actually sit down to think these things through?
You say if he loves you, he would do it. Does your father not love you? Why is he not doing it? You call your dad the best dad but absolve him of irresponsibility. But your peer that you chose to date, which presupposes intention to love and cherish, you're judging him by his ability or inability to foot your bill. How shameless!
You say you don't want to sell your body for sex. But you're entering relationship to do just that. The whole point of a relationship is to love and to cherish, not to put your father's responsibility on your partner. If you want to sell sex, please do it. I'm too liberal to judge. Everyone is trying to survive. But don't enter relationship with the goal of wrecking your mate by mounting pressure you and your parents cannot carry, on him. Talmbout "if he wants to, he will." Don't you want to do it for yourself? Why have you not done it?
After Hagar fled from Sarah for maltreating her out of jealousy, she went to the wilderness where God appeared to her and blessed her because the child she was carrying was a seed of Abraham. After God blessed her, she called him ‘El Roi’ - meaning, the God who sees me.
Prior to that time, no one had ever seen her. Her only identity was Sarah’s hand maid. Sarah saw her as a maid. Abraham saw her as Sarah’s maid. People saw her as Sarah’s maid. But for the first time in her life, someone saw her. Someone saw her enough to bless her. That is also the very first time someone gave God a name - El Roi.
I don’t know what you’re going through but I know many of you are at your lowest point and nobody sees you. I pray God sees you. El Roi ❤️
Just to mention these kits are not only for screening when you want to engage in sexual activities
You can use during medical outreaches, community outreaches, even Primary health centers can also use them
It also tests your blood group and rhesus status eg O postive