@JosephKindnessE @BOliokwe@BPharmeno@jon_d_doe The conclusion really is we have different realities. I would not understand yours and you wouldn’t understand mine. The most important thing is we are happy with our lives whichever way we have decided to live it. Arguing back and forth is pointless. ✌️
@JosephKindnessE @BOliokwe@BPharmeno@jon_d_doe Pls what forms are you filling exactly? Cos it looks like we are filling different forms. I live in the UK where record keeping is even more accurate than in naija and no one has had an issue with what I fill in my forms. Our levels of exposure really shape our thinking.
@OfficialSkiceDJ @JosephKindnessE @BPharmeno@jon_d_doe What will then happen to you if your wife doesn’t require you to fund her? Even if you married her when she had no money of her own, what will happen to your ego, if in the future, she starts to make her own money and no longer requires yours? Would you still feel like a man?😁
@OfficialSkiceDJ @JosephKindnessE @BPharmeno@jon_d_doe Hahaha! I’m not extremely rich, and I married before I was 30 years. My husband has his money, I have mine, but he doesn’t feel threatened by my money cos he adds a whole lot of value to me asides just money. Take away money from you and what exactly do you have left to offer?
@JosephKindnessE @BPharmeno@jon_d_doe And who told you I’m any less comfortable with bearing the miss title, or that I particularly feel more special with the Mrs title. It still doesn’t take away the fact that I’m married to a man who adores and respects me regardless of my title.
@JosephKindnessE @BPharmeno@jon_d_doe Abuse to the Mrs title? 😂 I don’t even know what to say to you at this point. I’m genuinely ‘shook’ by your thought process.
@zcUn @JosephKindnessE @BPharmeno@jon_d_doe Pls do you care to explain specifically how people’s records will speak for or against me if I’m not super rich. You see, I like very intelligent conversations, and I really would like to learn in more details this your point of view.
@BIG4FC @JosephKindnessE @BPharmeno@jon_d_doe I’m not deceiving myself, I’m explaining to you my reality. My friends, family and work colleagues call me by my first name. I only introduce myself as Dr ‘my father’s name’ to my patients. They don’t care and most importantly, my husband doesn’t care. You men should rest abeg.
@JosephKindnessE @BPharmeno@jon_d_doe As long as you have your marriage certificate, you can prove anywhere that you are married regardless of what your surname says.
And really , in some places, you are addressed by your first name mostly, except you tell them otherwise. No one cares.
@JosephKindnessE @BPharmeno@jon_d_doe Actually, it works. It works anyhow you want it to work. You can bear your Mrs title and still bear your father’s surname. You can even bear your Mrs title and bear any name you want it to be, it doesn’t even have to be your husband’s name or your father’s name.