As much as I am an advocate of cohabitation before marriage, it's actually not as easy as I may have made it seem.
At first, the man will be excited because he has seen free toto (for those who are having sex).
Then, after doing multiple rounds almost every day, he starts to feel 'caged' and may be looking for excuses to send the lady away.
His friends cannot visit him like they used to, and he will also not have all those sneaky links in his house because you're occupying their space.
I felt the same way too when I started cohabiting with my wife right from my 200-level year.
Imagine two young people living together, having frequent sex, and doing things together like going to school and making sure that we are looking out for each other.
You'll feel choked.
The only break that we had was during holidays when school was closed for the semester or session.
But after the first year, it became part of us and we got used to it. And that's how we lived together until we graduated from school and continued during NYSC.
Today, we are married.
And we have been living together as husband and wife for almost 20 years, and our cohabitation during our dating years made settling down as husband and wife much easier. But it still did not prevent us from fighting.
Our first 5 years of marriage were still very tough. However, those fights were not because of our not understanding each other or knowing our flaws.
We already went past that stage.
They were mostly because of other things caused by me.
I married at the young age of 29, and most of my close friends were still single and 'balling'.
My wife wanted me to start acting like a married man, but I wanted to continue acting like a 'Married Bachelor'.
She had settled in faster as a married woman, but my eyes were still wandering (still are, but not as much).
So, for you young people who are planning to cohabit or already cohabiting, you'd most likely experience the same things.
If you persevere, you'll overcome it.
If you love your girlfriend, you'll never get tired of her toto, and you'll always appreciate her presence around you.
Remember, it's that same toto that you'd be fucking for the rest of your life if you marry her.
And it's that same person that you'd be seeing for the rest of your life if you marry her.
Cross that hurdle now, so that marriage will not be like a battlefield for you in your early years. Your quarrels will not lead to her running away to her father's house or threatening divorce at the slightest quarrel.
I hope you understand.
End.
@izcodee@dev_tao_@instablog9ja We are all different to each other and we communicate differently also
If I need my babe help I will surely ask her and vice versa also
@izcodee@dev_tao_@instablog9ja Slave ? For telling your partner to help you wipe sweat? I’m just laughing ooo because if you can’t help your or your partner can’t help you what’s the essence of the marriage or maybe I’m looking at another video
@dev_tao_@instablog9ja Exactly what I wanted to say because I don’t see nothing bad here. Can’t couple help each other anymore ? If it’s from the woman side the man is romantic but because it’s from the man side he’s controlling ok nah
@MTNNG@MTNNG you guys are fraud, why allocating a SIM card that come with rounter to another customer, when you guys know that what you will be doing rounter won’t have come with SIM card because what’s the essence of SIM card coming with a rounter that’s already giving to another
@MTNNG@MTNNG you guys are fraud, why allocating a SIM card that come with rounter to another customer, when you guys know that what you will be doing rounter won’t have come with SIM card because what’s the essence of SIM card coming with a rounter that’s already giving to another
@MTNNG@MTNNG you guys are fraud, why allocating a SIM card that come with rounter to another customer, when you guys know that what you will be doing rounter won’t have come with SIM card because what’s the essence of SIM card coming with a rounter that’s already giving to another