No one can “make you” a bigot. If someone hurling insults at you makes you insult a whole tribe instead of that person, then you already had it in you.
Ngl if you're someone who likes depth. You're more prone to attracting avoidants. They'll bring intellect and at first it'll feel like you're compatible. Until you realise you're engaging with a mind but the heart is in lockdown. Remember one sees you. The other just studies you.