A wise woman builds her home with her own hands but a foolish woman tears it down with her very own hands, mouth and actions.
Don't confront him immediately nor react in the heat of your anger because, you may say things that I'm sorry can never fix.
Just coming online to see this and a lot of triggered female folks are giving their hate filled opinions and comments.
If you actually read to understand, you'd clearly see that he mentioned 'you have the right to be angry'.
Dear wives,
If you catch your husband cheating on you, you have the right to be angry.
But you don't have the right to cheat back.
This is what you may wish to do:
Before you confront him, make sure that you have prepared his meal.
Then you serve him.
Wait until he finishes the food.
Then you go sit close to him, rubbing his head and chest, gently.
Look straight into his eyes with a wicked smile.
"My darling husband, I see that you enjoyed the food. But I must tell you this: I was not happy with you when I was preparing the food, because you're cheating on me. Don't try to deny it because I have proof (don't tell him what proof you have). Please don't do it again. "
Kiss his forehead, pack the plates and go to bed or get busy with other things.
Your husband will be praying that you did not poison the food.
Do not confront him, and do not discuss it again, with him.
His conscience will continue to preeq him until he finds a way to apologise.
But do not expect him to say:
"My lovely wife, I am sorry that I cheated on you. I won't do it again."
As a wife, you should be able to recognize when your husband is apologizing without necessarily saying it verbatim.
I didn't write this post for you immature minds.
Or you holier than thous.
If the post no clear for your head, walka and pass.
That doesn't mean that you should not disagree.
Just disagree with sense and decorum.
End.
If your husband cheats on you and you aren't offended then you clearly don't love him.
How you manage the matter matters most.
If you cheat on him as payback, you're a fool, and if you decide to confront him with fights and quarrels you're equally a fool.
@jon_d_doe Some men are plain stupid.
You both are in a relationship, she's genuine and faithful but, your aim is just to get her laid.
Why have sex with her , if all you want to do is brag to your fellow “boys” that you've finally had her?
May He meet what he deserves.
@jon_d_doe Men see cheating a different way.
For you to have planned, strategize, chatted up and eventually met a man, then it means that there's an atom of feelings for that man.
So, to your husband: “ If you're married to me and still slept with him ,then you obviously didn't love me. ”
@jon_d_doe All I heard there is ’nye nye nye nye nye ' and ‘ Awwww '.
If as a woman and you have a little bit of common sense, the moment your husband catches cheating.
Don't even start calling devil , just pack and go .
He might forgive you but will never forget that slap to his face.
My dad will always quote..
“Great Readers are Great Leaders”.
Even if she says she wants 50 books, try and get them, you're investing in your her future.
Just ensure you vet it before she reads it.
I love parents who encourage their kids to read and go extra mile to buy them books.
My dad may not have been a graduate but he reads a lot.
Had lots of books , magazines, articles at my disposal which I read likewise, the dictionary.
All these helped to improve my vocabulary.
My daughter just brought this book to me.
Her mother bought it for her.
She says she is almost done reading it & is at chapter 38 out of 39 chapters.
Now she wants me to buy one of the other books for her, since her mother bought the first one.
This girl don dey make me fear.
Unfortunately, the man after some years of dating her decides to break-up with her.
She may end up dating 2 or 3 more guys before she end up meeting her husband.
Does that make her loose? No
It is the same men that left her that will come and castigate her when she gets married.
The ending hits hard because it is true.
A lot of good women have been labeled promiscuous, bed to bed midfielder and so on because of this.
Some women commit genuinely to a man in a relationship ,no cheating nor lousy character...
May God bless you single men to marry a wife that is so good and kind to you, despite her imperfections.
You'll not find any problems in seeing me praise my lovely wife.
You'll do more if you were in my shoes.
Because there many wives that are better than my wife.
And you can marry one.
Do not just judge your wife by how she treats your children.
But judge her by how she treats you and the children.
She does not need to have money.
That's not her primary responsibility.
It's your responsibility as a man to make that happen.
So that your good wife will prove to you that your money is not being wasted.
Men who are married to such women know what I am talking about.
Your own na to dey find virgin or how many preeqs she don fuck.
You cannot judge a woman's character by the number of dicks that she has fucked.
As long as she's not a prostitute.
Some women are so eager to become wives so that they don't keep wasting time in raising a family with you.
But you're deceitful or indecisive.
You go fuck am abi you no go fuck am?
If she unfortunately meets like 5 of you, that means 5 body counts or more.
Does it mean that because of that, she can no longer be a good wife?
Men are loud hypocrites.
End.
@jon_d_doe There's nothing a guy outside will say to flatter her because she's clearly loved at home.
Parents should be their children's biggest cheerleader and should make it a habit of telling them “I Love You ”. This will spur them on to achieve more
@instablog9ja Stupidity
So there's no bathroom in your apartment to fulfill this insane craving?
So , your spouse should come home to a wet bed and floor and then you'll say “its what the baby wants "
@jon_d_doe I do wonder, what are you doing in a sexual relationship as a girl as such young teenage age? Aren't you supposed to either be in secondary school or planning for jamb while trying to figure life out.
Besides, Trust when broken can never be superglued again .
@jon_d_doe No 1. I have to commend this lady. What a wonderful waste of time, resources and brain in the study of ' English Education ' . You clearly didn't allow the 'Education' to pass through you. No punctuation marks and heart wrenching spellings.
@jon_d_doe This doesn't just apply to the man.
It equally applies to the woman.
He's your husband, correct him in love, show it in actions by your writings.
It is equally your job to make him a better version of himself, you're not just there to answer Oriaku.
@jon_d_doe I'm someone who prioritizes using the correct use of the English language, the right spelling, pronunciation and punctuation marks.
Once you start using abbreviations in conversations, chats or writing, you won't know when you gradually forget how to construct good sentences.
@jon_d_doe Very what ?
Very good.
Good riddance to Bad rubbish.
Anywhere Belle face of a wife.
Why should you enjoy from wealth when you divorced him because of financial incapacity?