I like how women are so intentional with their decisions, so many ‘valid’ in that cs.
Men got to be more ruthless with their choices, don’t let anybody gaslight you.
Your life, your choices, your decisions!
Daenerys says: "Don't tell anyone you're Aegon Targaryen. If you love me, you keep this secret. This is our death sentence if it gets out."
Jon: "I have to tell my sisters."
2 days later Sansa tells Tyrion. Tyrion tells Varys. Varys sends letters to every Lord in Westeros. Daenerys loses her army, her best friend, her dragon, and her mind.
All because Jon Snow can't keep a secret for 5 minutes.
The most honorable man in the show is the worst boyfriend ever. He thought honesty = honor. But Ned Stark kept his parentage secret for 17 YEARS to protect him. That's honor. Jon telling Sansa 5 minutes after promising Dany? That's just being dumb.
If Jon had just shut up, Missandei lives. Rhaegal lives. Varys doesn't get executed. Daenerys doesn't burn King's Landing out of paranoia that everyone will back Jon.
He killed Dany twice - once with the truth, once with a knife.