i find calm men so attractive. I love the gentle aura. A man who doesn't yell at me when he's upset, a man who brings me peace and eases my anxiety. I just want to feel calm and safe with you.
In the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girl asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.