@Biodun_OG While Kitty made great biblical assertions and valid points, it takes 2 to tango.
While he did his dirt and "acknowledged" his failure, she probably dropped the ball somewhere with him that lead to the "white girl"
While men don't function on attention, men do need some.
@meethAmeed6 He started dating this woman ass backwards.. When dealing w/modern women today, options rue the day so what he learned was that he was a number, just not the No#1.
He probably was clear on his intentions and she probably never fully disclosed hers.
On to the next, my guy..
@tantehenia One thing that has gone under exposed is the "Violence Escalation" the community has..
It starts as words and then before you can get another sentence out, here comes a gun, knife, or a weapon period.
Why do disagreements in the blk community nearly always have someone dying?
@devNEJ There were at least 5 moments that could have prevented this from happening.
1. No ring = no raw.5
2. Plan B.
3. The abort.
4. Marry before you carry.
5. Discernment and vetting for better men.
Leave the alligator tears.
Made your bed hard, now lie in it.
@Chisomxoxo_ Motherhood has NEVER been about "looking cute and/it easy"
Motherhood is the state of being a mother. It is a lifelong journey characterized by unconditional love for the child(ren), profound responsibility, and personal sacrifice.
Now motherhood is pay-based babysitting π€
@eucharia3333 Decency is beautiful, and confidence doesn't need to be revealing.
Thank You.
Most, if not, all men everywhere would LOVE this, even though I don't speak for all men
@Anonunusual_TM Church today probably isn't what it used to be.
It used to teach people about the biblical ethics of personal interactions and stable life lessons.
Now it harbors Satan, chasing of wealth and fame, humble "dresses" and less we forget a Bentley in every pulpit.
Church? π€£ Joke
@yoxics So a money-rich, financially illiterate young black man making an unwise housing purchase, only to learn he hasn't paid taxes in 4yrs.
It's sad seeing that no matter how much money some blk men make, they always find ways to lose by being financially irresponsible.
So Sad
@Ersin0X This is exactly why you set boundaries. As soon as you were made aware that her friends were there, you just leave. She turned your date into her outing. Just leave.
Typical disrespect by the woman, not new. She pegged him a sucka & chose financial depletion.
@Henrytheefirst SAHM for 32 years seems to be a bit overboard. At some point, her kids didn't need her that much.
She not look at the total picture.
Still gotta pay for property taxes, retiree health insurance cost, car insurance, gas.
She could work some or invest with Robinhood or Acorns.
@ItsKingSlime She got everything she deserves..
She had males, her brothers, telling her HE was no good so what does she do. Get pregnant and let that toxic man into her family.
Women show every day that what matters to them is all that matters, even if it's to their own detriment.
@meethAmeed6 So let's review: She made a baby with a man, that she doesn't trust to bestow life lessons & information on the CHILD they made together and she's hoping they he'll come back..π€¬
This is, one of, the exact reason why black have a 47% single mom-led homes. Can't pick for shit π€
@Biodun_OG As is common place in the world of modern women, the questioner wants to pursue a relationship with a still married man, once he has divorced.
The substantiates the claim of women wanting men who lead.
See her smile as she talks about the leaderless man
Women don't want leaders
@MUSICANDBUILDS What's very telling is that a "white supremacist was able to step foot on a college campus and speak, but if a man with an abortion statement sign is on said campus, then it's "He's bringing violence to our school"
White supremacist has more clout on college campusesπ€
@muheediva01 They don't because some parents teach their son the right things to do, only to see them go out and totally disregard & disrespect what they were taught.
Young girls/women do the exact same shit. How do parents feel seeing their daughter become a cum dump or baby factory π€·ββοΈ
@mymixtapez She's right. There's levels to this shit and she's not on any level.
You get on the Internet complaining about rich niggas being frugal... How do you think they got rich?
Bezos, Zuckerberg, Gates, Dimon, Musk.. You don't see them "blowing a bag on some bitch"
Not on the level
@meethAmeed6 Tripp, this guy, waxed philosophically.
Unbeknownst to the questioner, he, actually, vetted that woman. When it got tight, she left; it's not uncommon w/modern women today. She focused on funds, not him.
Ladies, the wool is leaving men's eyes.
Stay safe fellas πͺ
@Zarish5062 What a BAIT statement.
A man's consequences for cum & walking away is child support, which can lead to garnishment, license revoking/ jail time if not paid whether the man wants to be involved or not.
Women can abort, even late term abort with NO consequences.
Are you dumb?
@lovyPrimzy1 Marriage is more than buying chewing gum at the gas station.
It's finding, dating, and vetting a woman for a lifelong commitment.
Currently, people aren't even basic cogent dating partners.
Men want sex, women want high body counts & rosters.
No marriage minds out hereπ€