Rhea Dungen 🚢

I help parents raising Quiet kids navigate personal change. | Taught language 15+ years

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

I'm throwing a belated birthday party for my girl today, coinciding with the 30th #Ship30for30 day.

So here's a little story which I always keep in mind about making plans and decisions.

Here's to @IAmKloot: https://t.co/aGG3616OJj

@dickiebush
@Nicolascole77

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@Nicolascole77 "The only thing I have to say, it's been a good year for the roses"

by Jerry Chestnut, love listening to it from Costello.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@Nicolascole77 Your last point is a life changer. Change often has a process much different from what people think: https://t.co/XF5qfKoPlr

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

How I think about change has radically changed once I read @REllenhorn's book "How We Change."

Read more in my essay for @dickiebush and
@Nicolascole77's #Ship30for30.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@qoeleteth @dickiebush This downer attitude in comments doesn't help anyone, does it?
Before I had a kid, I did not prioritize/take care of myself like this, but I should have.
Respect for your respectful answer, @dickiebush.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

Is the Spotlight Effect stopping you from writing?

It shouldn't.

The Spotlight Effect: We overestimate the extent to which others notice our behaviors.

https://t.co/B1FWzMnWJP

@Nicolascole77 @dickiebush #Ship30for30

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

Looking to write your first book?

You won't want to miss the last edition of the Digital Writing Compass by @dickiebush & @Nicolascole77! 

Read it here:

https://t.co/PqXFQqba4y

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@michaelunbroken "You gotta make the change if you want to change your life." in your latest podcast episode resonates. You have to check out @REllenhorn's book How We Change. Concept of "Fear of hope" will speak to you. Some notes: https://t.co/63EvkEo02E

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

Read more about @REllenhorn's "Ten Reasons Not to Change" in my essay for @dickiebush
and @Nicolascole77's #Ship30for30 .

Here's the previous one on a fresh look at staying the same: https://t.co/Qcl6TUKbls

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

Hey @Nicolascole77 & @dickiebush, I think you should include "We help you avoid quiet quitting" in the #Ship30for30 marketing material.
@BrookeCastillo describes it as "quitting on your own back" and without even noticing you did it: https://t.co/sQ77Yt10Pi

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

Browsing old episodes of #EOFire, I found one with @Nicolascole77 from 2017.
Cole shared the quote "You can't steer a stationary ship." & how important it is to create discipline and mastery. Well before #Ship30for30 was born.
https://t.co/W3nBAIbZAO

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@StoryLuck My mom showed us how you truly listen to someone.
If my daughter writes in my obit she felt listened to by me & felt she was the only person in the world at that moment, that'd be enough for me.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@StoryLuck "Come, Boy, sit down.
Sit down and rest.

And the boy did.

And the tree was very happy."

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@StoryLuck I had to wait for some days and come back here to write something.

"A mother of tiny" sacrifices is a flawless way to describe your mother. Mine is one, too.

I always choke up in the middle of reading the book The Giving Tree.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@Nicolascole77 The 2nd.

But people who prefer #1 also miss the point you have to overdeliver and provide immense value if you want the #2 to be fruitful.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@StoryLuck Feel better, Dan. Especially if you protected yourself for so long, it catches you off-guard.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@dickiebush https://t.co/XF5qfKpnaZ

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

How I think about change has radically changed once I read @REllenhorn's book "How We Change."

Read more in my essay for @dickiebush and
@Nicolascole77's #Ship30for30.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@IAmKloot @dickiebush @Nicolascole77 https://t.co/Hdp1o3q2Q1

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

I'm throwing a belated birthday party for my girl today, coinciding with the 30th #Ship30for30 day.

So here's a little story which I always keep in mind about making plans and decisions.

Here's to @IAmKloot: https://t.co/aGG3616OJj

@dickiebush
@Nicolascole77

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@isobeltynan @dickiebush @Nicolascole77 Those mix-ups are the best!

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

Ever found a love note at the top of the stairs at night?

My daughter left one for me when she was 5.

Want to learn how I helped her love writing?

Read on 🧵
@dickiebush @Nicolascole77 #Ship30for30

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@mazwionline How observant, Tatenda!
I was at a restaurant restroom once in Chicago. A woman said she saw me at my table and she loves my nose 😮 We all want what we don't have, I guess.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@KickLifesButt I like how you made two groups for beauty and life when you list takeaways. You must be living your life with intention if you can take all this from a documentary.
I'll check it out soon.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@dickiebush @Nicolascole77 Remember how you do the things well and faster when you have a reason/reward at the end.

You can make reading and writing fun for kids.

You won't regret it.

[Rhea Dungen 🚢 @OneStoryUntold]

@dickiebush @Nicolascole77 5/ Be ready if they leave a note for you when they're mad at you.

I keep "Mom is naughty" on the kitchen wall as a reminder of all the good things in life.