I’m a type C girl...
- I can deep clean the whole house or ignore a laundry pile for days.
- I can give a motivational pep talk, or need one myself.
- I can be 20 mins early or walk in 20 mins late.
- I can go to bed at 9pm, or scroll tiktok until the sun comes up.
Trauma makes you tolerate people who treat you poorly because you’re afraid of losing them.Healing make you realize that you should be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please others.
IM NOT EMBARRASSED ABOUT NOTHIN I BEEN THRU! Yep I struggled,I been hurt,yeah a PERSON I loved crossed me,friends betrayed me, been broke,mismanaging money,yep I done cried at times,emotional issues, been heart broken&dumb🤷🏽♀️But I ALWAYS ate every trial the devil tested me with up
There’s no coming back from certain things, and I don’t think people really understand that. Some damage doesn’t get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that’s it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.
If you feel embarrassed about a way you used to be or a thing you used to do, I think that’s growth. If you can see how something you did was flaw and the thought of it makes you uncomfortable, you my friend are on the path to accountability and correction
Birds of a feather do not flock together & a bitch could never rub off on me… I always been me, had a mind of my own, did my own thing.. Not easily influenced & you can’t peer pressure me.
I keep my mouth shut about people & their situations. I never know what type of situation I can be in & I mind my business. Nobody else’s failures or downfalls excite me. I know how it feels to be up & I know how it feels to be down.
i think every woman reaches that season where she’s not angry anymore. just aware. you start seeing people clearly. you move differently. you don’t over explain… you just shift. that’s maturity mixed with grace.