Tersa

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[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

Would you rather:

A. Be with someone boring but loyal
B. Be with someone exciting but stressful

Pick one and don’t lie 😂

@Tina_tin88 @StephanSpeaks @Pat_Stedman

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@ZoyaBloomz "Bad at gifts" is valid.
"Ignoring that it matters to me" is not.

Love is paying attention.
Gifts are just proof you were listening.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@_MochiMimi_ Still a virgin

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@AdenikeOmolar11 girls who smoke to calm anxiety they should be healing.

The smoke clears. The reason is still there.
Heal the root, not just the mood.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

As a relationship coach:

If you’re the only one noticing, reminding, and carrying...
You’re not in a relationship.

You’re in customer service.
And your customer doesn’t even tip.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

Signs you’re not dating. You’re managing:
1. You remember everything
2. You remind about everything
3. You worry about everything

Congrats. You’re single... with a dependent.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

You can’t be attracted to your project manager.

The moment love turns to management,
desire dies.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@ZoyaBloomz This is it.
Before we even talk about "attachment styles"...

Check who is carrying the mental load.
Who notices the bills? Who remembers the anniversary?
Who decides, reminds, and follows up?

By the time you get to "dependence", the partnership is dead already.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@Adasu_d_gr8 You fight with effort, not with begging.
You chase with clarity, not desperation.

If she’s consistently saying no, giving mixed signals,
or you’re the only one fighting?
Give it 3 honest tries. Then give yourself peace.

Love is not a hostage situation.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@guloonnnaa There’s truth here.

Men marry for: Stability, Peace, Respect, Partnership.
But "stability" without love, sex, and friendship?
That marriage won’t last.

It’s not 1 reason. It’s all 3: Love + Sex + Stability.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@ZoyaBloomz This.

Being "strong" and being "alone" are not the same thing.

Support looks like: "I see you. How can I help?"
Not: "Figure it out, you're capable."

Carrying everything alone is not partnership.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@OhajiemoU85445 For some men it’s values/religion.
For others it’s insecurity + wanting "control".

But obsession is the red flag.
Healthy men want compatibility, character, and peace.
Not just a status.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

Let me all ear your response😊

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

Peaceful > Passionate

Choose the relationship that lets you sleep at night,
not the one that gives you anxiety every weekend.

Which one are you choosing?
A: Peaceful B: Passionate C: Both 😭
👇

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

Be honest 👇

What’s one boundary you wish you set earlier in a relationship?

I’ll start: Saying "no" without feeling guilty.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

This.

The best revenge isn't a comeback post.
It's becoming the version of you they can't afford to lose.

Level up in silence. Let your growth do the talking.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

Peaceful > Passionate

Choose the relationship that lets you sleep at night,
not the one that gives you anxiety every weekend.

Which one are you choosing this week? 👇

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@sxhealth101 Facts.
The moment you start chasing, you lose your power.
Level up, get busy, heal.
That’s the real flex.

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

@ZoyaBloomz Exactly.
Healthy leadership sounds like:
"I've thought this through, here's my take, what do you think?"
Not: "Because I said so."

[Tersa @Only1Tersa]

Dating without standards is just collecting
stories for your therapist.

Know what you want before you say "I do".