Narcissists can't handle accountability.
Try to sit one down and talk about how they treat people. They'll throw a tantrum, scream, blame you for everything, or bring up something you did 10 years ago to deflect.
If you're lucky, they'll just run away, because they can't stand the fact that someone they think is beneath them dared to confront them.
You're not dealing with a rational adult. You're dealing with a spoiled child in a grown body. Remember that and move accordingly.
Narcissists can have an entire crowd supporting them while the person they hurt is left standing alone. They know how to win people over, control the narrative, and surround themselves with enablers who reinforce their version of events. Meanwhile, the victim is left carrying the pain in silence, often judged by people who never bothered to hear their side.
How to be a female narcissist:
1. Manipulate men and use them for your own benefit.
2. Lie constantly and fake your feelings.
3. Play the victim, even when you’re the culprit.
4. Make men feel inadequate by constantly reminding them of their flaws.
You promised me you'd never leave, even when things got difficult.
I believed you because I loved you. I defended you when people questioned us. I stayed when things weren't easy. I gave you chances when my heart was begging me to walk away.
And then, one day, you became the very person you promised you'd never be.
You left me with questions you would never answer and memories I couldn't escape.
The saddest part isn't that you broke your promise. It's that I built my future around it.
Can we fall in love again?
we fix everything, we restart everything and we forget about the past. We do everything again, but right this time. you're my person and I don't wanna have to do anything without you:..
Sometimes I really wish I could just shut off all my feelings and emotions, this shit is exhausting. Cycle of no matter what you do or say isn’t enough for her..
They say time heals but I’ve been wounded one too many times. 27 club baby 💙