it’s 2023 & we grown. we living for ourselves these days & dgaf who like or don’t like it. & we damn sure don’t care who like or dislike us. life goes on & your life is keyword “your” life, live it up.
Everything is falling into place. What’s meant in your life will happen and it’ll feel so right because it’s not forced. Just organically happening and it feels so good.
You gotta PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN IN your life. Block numbers, stay away from fake love, grind, get your spirit & mind right stay focused! You gotta demand positivity, speak it, clam it, see it everyday. im growing and trying to become a better version of myself I won’t dare let up
you & your partner owe not a single soul an explantation for how you pursue your relationship. How quickly it progresses or how slowly you take things. Your relationship is on YOUR terms and follows YOUR rules. idc what nobody say.
Once you no longer seek external validation, you become extremely dangerous (in a good way). You're no longer affected by how people perceive you & your purpose. This isn't about being arrogant; this is about knowing who you are first & letting everyone else catch up later.
I absolutely do not recommend ‘posting to prove’ anything about your life online. More times than not, you’re giving up sensitive information bc some stranger in bum fuck nowhere is taunting you to.
You disrespect yourself everytime you say yes when you want to say no. You call it loyalty/love/friendship. really you're just hoping someone will see how amazing you are and choose you. it shouldn't work that way. choose yourself. that's how you teach them. by choosing you
Ppl who bring you peace… Stick with them. Treasure them. Do anything in your might to keep them. Ppl who don’t… Be done with em. Don’t even bat an eyelash about it.
No part of me wants to be perfect. I’m very authentic, emotional, impulsive, moody, loving, passionate, compassionate, among other things. But if you’re looking at me to be perfect, that’s just something I can’t and won’t obtain. Respectfully.
Once I don’t fuck with somebody , I cut off everybody you associate with as well and I block you or remove you from my pages lol so it’s impossible for me to know what you doing or for you to know I’m what doing 🤷🏾♀️ idgafffff
Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. Knowing everyday you're their favorite person is what you need. Learn to love yourself instead