@lilaccountz The prospect of your own body being owned by an arbitrary deity itu existential horror terbesar yang gw sadari pas main the Sims 😭😭 i give them nice house and life and friends but also kill them in funny ways, but then I realized this is how Allah sees me and it's scary af.
@SaxonFrost@emilykmay@JohnFrumTweets Women are more than able to survive in the modern world. Maybe not in a jungle, but in the current era definitely. But not all men could.
@SaxonFrost@emilykmay@JohnFrumTweets You must be from the West to say things like that. In my country a lot amount of men send their wives abroad to become domestic worker and earn money, they don't work. They send the kids to 'pesantren' (look it up) and live from their wives' labor sent home. Look up 'sundaman'.
@SaxonFrost@emilykmay@JohnFrumTweets Reading this is so sad because there is this subtle hints that reveal the commenter probably are not well in their career 😭 it's like knowing ur talking to low income indonesian whose biggest flex is their new iphone (most likely bought on installment)
I’m 25 and I’m gonna graduate college at 27. Most of my friends have multiple kids and are married. Prob gonna be an intern at 28/29. Life will continue whether you go to uni or not. The day you stop adhering to this mindset of a “social clock” is the day you’ll know
peace.
@altbumi Dari conclusion ini, saat SMP saya sadar bahwa konsep perasaan Tuhan sangat berbeda dengan mahkluk, termasuk persepsinya terhadap penderitaan dan kebahagiaan manusia. Apa yang baik dan yang tidak? At that point rasanya seperti cosmic horror
@archieves___@GusDikaOfficial Wahh dulu saya bkn di pertamina jadi kurang tahu^^ tp umumnya teman2 banyak yg dpt kontak PIC turunan dr kating. DM saja kak, siapa tau aku bs share
@rundeeplearning@GusDikaOfficial Mmg bukan company gede sih, kl g salah di perusahaan kargo china gt namanya SF? Buat kepindahannya sendiri bntuk kontrak seperti apa itu aku kurang paham
@vyowiz_ Dgn di blg mereka org 'baik' udh ketauan knp banyak d RSJ sbnrny. Poor boundary, self sabotage, and reckless self sacrifice malah jadi 'baik' di indo. A virtue yg didukung masyarakat dn mereka percaya jg itu baik. Start calling it reckless and stupid.
One societal trvke that Muslims don’t want to acknowledge about the hijab is that it isn’t really about actually being modest, but rather signalling modesty.
The headscarf doesn’t protect you from unwanted attention, but puts you in a societal category which comes with a certain set of presumptions attached to it, presumptions that in certain communities give you a sense of respect (and in some, not so much).
This is why a lot of women won’t actually fulfil the religiously mandated conditions of hijab (as they violate it ie; by wearing a ton of makeup, tight clothes etc) but are still awarded a certain social status.
There’s a lot of talk on how islamosphere is uniquely obsessed with this one commandment, but it makes more sense when you view it in this light. Most people, men & women do not l care about literally following the law by the letter & obeying God, but outwardly presenting themselves as Godly.
(Also, I was talking about social views, not how it’s actually mandated, but tbh even when headcovering is spoken about in the Quran it references it a social protection as it separates lower and upper class women rather than being something that makes you inherently more modest.)
@GusDikaOfficial Kenapa gw bilang 'easy'? Karena Pertamina itu cabangnya ada banyak per daerah dan anaknya juga banyak (International, Geothermal, Retail, NRE, etc). Selain itu utk apply, yang di minta itu proposal kita jadi buat yg CV nya masih kosong gk perlu minder sama peer ambis magang 6x
@GusDikaOfficial Easiest pipeline utk lu semua yg gak punya ordal? Pas kuliah make sure buat KP/magang mahasiswa/Tugas Akhir di Pertamina. Ada banyak per daerah atau fungsi. Leave a good impression on your buddy/mentor/user. Apply pas talent pool buka, notify them, and they can pull some strings.