Optymus

Realtor. Entrepreneur. Man utd.

[Optymus @Optymus77]

@McDivad Hmmm. I try

[Sisi Olounje @SisiSimifoodies]

The day God finally comes through for me on this matter, I’m going to cry my heart out. Not because of the pain, but because of the joy, relief, and gratitude. 🥹❤️.

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

I’m a winner, I’m going to win

[Muna @Munalozy]

Please don't stop being a sweet person because people don't reciprocate it. 🙏

[NEON ADEJO @NeonAdejo]

6 months from today, I will be 10 times better, physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially.

Send this to yourself… and watch what God can do.

[Dr. Ose Etiobhio @osemagnum]

DEAR MEN, A VIRGIN GIRL MAY NOT BLEED ON THE FIRST DAY OF SEX.

NO. SHE DIDN'T LIE TO YOU.

READ. SHARE. REPOST.

Walk with me, Men.

The Hymen and Other Heavy Myths: A Small Tissue, a Large Silence

As a gynae doctor, let me speak gently, and slowly, and clearly about the hymen, because this small, shy fold of tissue has been forced to carry a suitcase far heavier than it deserves, and because too many hearts have cracked under the weight of a myth dressed up as biology.

First, let us be firm and tender at the same time: on no account should any girl or woman be subjected to a so-called “virginity test.” There is no medical test that can prove virginity. None. And any healthcare provider who claims to diagnose virginity by peering at the hymen is not practicing medicine, except in the narrow and painful situations of suspected child abuse or sexual assault where injury must be assessed. Virginity is not an anatomical finding, it is a social invention. The body does not keep receipts of first times. The body does not run a guest book of who entered and when.

Many men imagine the hymen as a stubborn door, sealed and waiting for a heroic knock. They picture what medicine calls an imperforate hymena hymen with no opening at all, and they imagine it as the standard design. But this is rare. Very rare. And when it happens, it announces itself loudly: the girl will not menstruate, blood will collect inside, pain will rise like an unanswered question, and she will need a simple surgical opening. This is not purity. This is pathology. This is not a moral story. It is a medical one.
In truth, the hymen is a democracy of shapes. Some are ring-shaped, and some look like lace, and some have a band across them, and some are wide and elastic from the beginning. These differences are as ordinary as different noses and different ears and different laughs. The hymen is not a gate that opens once and collapses in shame. It is a thin rim of tissue at the vaginal entrance, and nothing more dramatic than that.

And time, that patient sculptor, reshapes it. Sports and cycling and dancing and gymnastics and tampons and the simple choreography of daily life can stretch and thin the hymen without any sexual story attached. So when a woman has sex for the first time and there is no blood, it is not evidence of deceit. It is evidence of anatomy behaving like anatomy: flexible, responsive, alive.

Bleeding at first intercourse often comes from fear, from dryness, from hurriedness, from force, not from a mythical seal being broken like a red ribbon at a ceremony. With arousal, and patience, and consent, and lubrication, the vagina opens as it was designed to open, and sometimes there is no blood at all. A virgin may not bleed at her sexual debut, and this is not scandalous. It is medical. Men, please, do not turn blood into a lie detector. It is not one. Blood is a fluid, not a confession.

So let us pass on this knowledge gently, and stubbornly, and with love. To men, I say: trust science and unlearn folklore. To women, I say: your body is not on trial. Your anatomy does not owe anyone evidence. Your worth is not hidden in a fold of tissue. And your truth does not need to bleed in order to be believed.

[Optymus @Optymus77]

@McDivad Going well

[Idanssssssss @Nimisioluwa]

If my account crosses your timeline, kindly tag me multiple times to remove me from ghost ban 🙏🏽

[Optymus @Optymus77]

@Yetunde_first 🙏🏾 Happy Sunday

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Good morning and happy Sunday to you all.

[Duke of Africa @Allezamani]

If you’re reading this, may today begin and end well for you.

Good morning

[Optymus @Optymus77]

@McDivad Amen🙏🏾

[Optymus @Optymus77]

@Ayo_499 Good morning! Happy Sunday to you too

[Optymus @Optymus77]

@McDivad Amen! Happy Sunday

[The Souvenir Whisperer 🎁 @Inzaghi1]

For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning.

Psalm 30:5

This is the word of God for June 28, 2026..

[Optymus @Optymus77]

@Lifeof_AG01 Good morning

[Optymus @Optymus77]

@peace_igho Amen

[Optymus @Optymus77]

I affirm

[Mela 🌺🌺 @Akubaruba]

Soft life affirmations for today;

- I deserve rest as much as I deserve success
- My life is allowed to be beautiful
- Abundance flows to me in ways that feel calm
- I release what I can't control
- I do not have to rush to prove my worth, I am already enough
- I choose peace over unnecessary struggle
- I welcome peace into my mind ❤️

May today meet us with unexpected kindness. Cheers!