Ora

at this point let’s all just do drugs shame.

[Nyrae @TemiXo_1]

If I were pregnant and informed that my fetus had Down syndrome I would absolutely abort. No amount of social media romanticizing of profound disability would change my mind. Contrary to popular opinion, you need more than love to care for a disabled child.

[:) @roriyum]

and motho watswa hoyena shem.

[Meagan Aguero @meaganuntamed]

The duality of Pta gents>>
English like they can't speak Vernac
Spitori like they can't speak English.

Nete they are not good people. 👍

[Euls Euls @LadyCharrr1]

After 21 I used to ask my mom to go out late at night and she’d still say no. One day i practiced “informing” her that I will be going out with my friends and not coming back and got an “Okay”. 😭👍🏿

[Ora @OratileMas12820]

And having to cut him off cause he keep playing in your face 🥲

[Palesa @stepppa333]

I hate dealing with a man that knows how to fuck��

[alicia 🩷 @aliciaissolo_]

same, new dick would heal me 😔

[. @Guavapine_]

@niy2pretty same. but I also be hoping his money long

[Mima @RealLifeGold]

The chances that it’s the same man are high.

[Tee @teesmmm]

First in my bloodline to not want a husband

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

“You’re so strict”
Thanks, I’ve seen what happens to women who aren’t.

[Mo🧚🏼 @Pearlyi_n_]

I really envy people who are not attracted to men, they won so bad.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

I advise women to be difficult, as a defense mechanism. Constantly.

[TSHIAMO @tshianki]

Physical abuse, touch me once and you’ll never see me again.

[Oxtail Pricing Specialist @simsimmaaz]

But if they don't want kids why would that matter to them?

[Pricci @Pricci0]

Using your Studies as a reason to avoid family gatherings>>>>>>>

[Mima @RealLifeGold]

Cheat back.

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

We heard Nandi loud and clear. Her point was that Black men deserve grace because the system crushes them hardest: no money, no government support, 400 years of stacked odds, and constant pressure to succeed.

Our point is this: that same system hits Black women just as hard, often harder. Patriarchy. Single motherhood. Unpaid care work. Higher poverty rates. Sky high GBV risks but when women survive those exact conditions through informal hustles or sex work just to feed their families, they are shamed. Insulted. Called slurs. Told they have no dignity.

So men deserve grace for trying, but women are humiliated for trying to survive? You cannot demand grace from women while denying it to them in the same breath. That is selective empathy.

Grace is not a one way demand from women to men. It has to be mutual. Otherwise it is just another burden placed on the group that is already carrying the most.

[Rebrand 💜 THEM! @DrRebrand]

Can't imagine being a safe space for men. Nka screama gore!

[Lerato 💜🇿🇦 🇵🇸 @lerrykins_]

I hate this era of podcasts because we are finding out in real time that our favourite celebrities are actually birds 😒😔

[A 🇦🇪 @tutututuulip]

Detach, babygirl. He had time, just not for you.