I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”
Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
I was born for romantic love, Sunday funday, quality time, lying on the chest of the person I love, spending time with my loved ones, little gestures, feeling deeply, all of it.
Life is already hard 💔 please choose someone who chooses you, not just in words, but in actions. Someone who's there for you, stays consistent, and makes you feel wanted, not just when they feel like it, but every day. ❤
I can’t wait to get married, make my husband a daddy then throw him big cookouts at our house & shower him with nice gifts. I got it all planned out lmfaooooo
Ask your partner how they slept, how their day was, about work, what's on their mind, why they've been quiet, why they are being sensitive, what they'd like to eat, and where they'd like to go; make it a habit. Never let them feel unseen, unheard, or ignored.
Nothing is sexier than a man who knows what he wants and chooses you loudly. Morning calls. Good night messages. Quick replies. No mind games. No leaving you guessing. He gives time, attention and real effort. He makes you feel safe, valued, and noticed. And when he's committed, he's all in, on you and you alone.
God is intentional. Nothing about this season has been random. Not the delays, not the waiting, not even the detours. One day it’s all going to make sense in the most beautiful way.
Once I start looking at you differently, it's a wrap. No amount of apologies will fix it. I'm not even mad at you, you're just so weird to me now. That goes for family, friends, relationships all that.