MommaBear Welcome to Holland

Longevity, and Legacy. HUMANITY'S PURPOSE IS TO UNITE. THE FUTURE is to Experience, Heal, Create, and Thrive ✨ ❤️ to LOVE 🫂 Bee 🐝 fruitful and MULTIPLY ❤️

[MommaBear Welcome to Holland @OurHolland]

The Answer and Our Path begins with each of us, here's how:
https://t.co/MeWSe8Uqx1
I love you so very much you see. It's equal to the amount I love me, which is more than I have ever felt ever. It's so gorgeous 🥰 You. Are. GORGEOUS! 😍

[MommaBear Welcome to Holland @OurHolland]

Say the nice thing!!!
I had a lady stop me to specifically tell me she's raised over 200 foster kids and that I'm doing a great job parenting...I about cried it was so good to hear, it's been a long journey and she had no idea my kids have autism...

Say nice things
It matters ❤️

[Grover @Grover]

If you are having trouble believing in yourself, have no fear! Super Grover is HERE! I believe in you, friend! 💙

[𝕵𝖊𝖆𝖓𝖎𝖊 ✨💋♒️♍️♋️♥️✨ @alove_1980]

Not “Disney: After Dark”?!?
LMAO 🤣😭😆
If you need a laugh… 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾 #GetLowMusical

[William Shatner @WilliamShatner]

It's been 60 years in the making and it's all thanks to you the fans! Happy Birthday @StarTrek! My best, Bill

[World Wise Wizards @wifizards]

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[DogeDesigner @cb_doge]

Incredible view of tonight’s aurora from the ISS, shared by NASA astronaut Anil Menon. 💫

[MommaBear Welcome to Holland @OurHolland]

Born to be alive ❤️

[Mambo Italiano @mamboitaliano__]

@elonmusk Another ordinary day on 𝕏… 😅

[Elon Musk @elonmusk]

FSD Supervised approved in Slovenia 🇸🇮

[Elon Musk @elonmusk]

Tesla Superchargers are built in New York State

[theMikeGuy @themikedude72]

That's me!

[MommaBear Welcome to Holland @OurHolland]

What's the weirdest way you've heard someone say they need to use the bathroom?

[Manoco @Moonlighhy]

Each time I thought there’s no way it could get any worse and it most definitely did 🤣

[Mark Anthony @Muskstaycalm]

I put stickers on all my gym equipment.

[Joe Sokol @iAmJoeSokol]

This is the most insane footage you will see in the Bangor, Maine universe....

....We have been officially invaded.

My friend Adam Stade Bangor Maine on a Facebook post shows us what happened. Go find his page and follow him.

Also, the only reason some of you know me is the Maine Wire, find them and follow them!

[L. David Fairchild @David_Fairchild]

This is very personal for me to share.

My biological mother was a stripper working at a club in downtown Seattle. My biological father was one of her clients. She became pregnant with me while struggling with addiction and used drugs throughout her pregnancy. When I was born, I was immediately taken to the ICU to detox and was eventually placed for adoption.

By God’s grace, I was adopted by two wonderful parents who loved me deeply. I was four months old when they picked me up from the orphanage, and they are the only parents I’ve ever known. I never grew up feeling like something was missing. I never felt some deep longing to find my biological parents. I had a mom and dad who loved me, cared for me, sacrificed for me, and gave me a wonderful home.

Years later, after I got married and we had our first child, my wife encouraged me to learn more about my biological history. If for no other reason, she thought it might be good for the sake of our daughter to know whether there was anything medically or genetically significant in my family history.

So I eventually submitted my DNA to Ancestry. Through that, I discovered a half brother, aunts, cousins, and eventually was put in contact with my biological mother.

We were able to meet.

And when I met her, I got to tell her something I’d wanted to tell her for as long as I could remember: thank you.

Thank you for giving me life.

I got to tell her about the wonderful parents who adopted me. I got to tell her that I’d had a good life. I got to tell her about my wife and my children. I wanted her to know that the baby she carried in the middle of all that chaos became a man with a family, a calling, people he loves, people who love him, and a life for which he is profoundly grateful.

I’ve never been angry with her. Never. Not once.

For years I told my wife and children that if my biological mother ever found me, I knew exactly what I would say. I wouldn’t condemn her. I wouldn’t demand explanations. I’d simply thank her for allowing me to live.

Because without that decision, I wouldn’t have the extraordinary wife I have today. I wouldn’t know the indescribable joy of my children. I wouldn’t have experienced the friendships, ministry, laughter, sorrow, beauty, failures, victories, and ordinary moments that have made up my life. There are people I love who wouldn’t know me, children who wouldn’t exist, and a story that never would’ve been written.

She gave me the chance to live it.

We still stay in contact. We speak every few months, and I genuinely enjoy hearing her stories and learning about her life. Since the day I met her, I’ve prayed that the Lord would bring her to Himself. I still pray that.

I share all of this because lately I’ve been thinking a great deal about the choices parents make. About life and death. About how much hangs in the balance of decisions made in moments of fear, desperation, darkness, or confusion.

And yes, I’ve been thinking about those three little children whose lives were taken by the very person entrusted with protecting them. It’s difficult for me not to think about my own story alongside theirs. Their lives mattered. Their futures mattered. Everything they might’ve become, everyone they might’ve loved, every ordinary Tuesday morning and Christmas morning and wedding and child and friendship that might’ve filled the decades ahead of them mattered.

And it makes me profoundly grateful that my mother chose differently.

So if there’s a mother or father reading this who’s in a dark place and wondering whether your presence matters, whether your decisions matter, or whether the people who depend on you would somehow be better off without you, please hear me: your choices matter more than you can see from where you’re standing.

Choose life.

Don’t make an irreversible decision in the middle of a season that will pass. Don’t allow a moment of darkness to make a permanent decision about a future you can’t yet see.

Trust the Lord. Ask for help.

[Elon Musk @elonmusk]

@TeslaBoomerMama I agree

[MommaBear Welcome to Holland @OurHolland]

I still get teased for saying
"Abraham Lincoln!"
when I was like 12 as a retort to my Ma
😎

[Alien Perspective @WigglyAir]

when someone asks me who tf i think i am: