On a separate note, I wonder how people choose to become victims of the worst case scenarios in their own imaginations. Like in your own free mind, the best imaginary partner you could come end up with is a completely useless one? Why?
I mean people can call him immature or whatever else but this is a legitimate reason to be angry lol. 10 years of service and he couldnโt even get a say? Iโd be pissed too.