I saw a video of a woman listing all the places she wouldn’t live b/c abortions are illegal.
Basing where you would live off the fact that you can’t have an abortion is INSANE!
Not cost of living, climate, job market, but abortions?
Happiness, peace, & especially love is controlled internally. The responsibility of each, lies within the controll of every individual. No external source should ever be expected or accept the responsibility of another person’s happiness, peace, & love.
If you’re looking for genuine love, lead with genuine love, not a script, games, or expectations. If your, teacher, coach, or advisor is single and has been, nothing they say is matter of fact! If it hasn’t worked for them, it’s probably not gonna work for you.
To enter into any relationship believing the other party is not as prized as yourself is destined for failure. Each person is a prize to someone. Unless you approach ever interaction as such, you will continue to block your blessing.
Women will get online and listen to a single woman tell them what they should do, expect, & require of a man, in order to get a man. Multitudes of women will subscribe to the teachings of someone who’s teachings have not been tested & effectively applied in their own life.
To believe that the answer to your prayer should fit all the delusional criteria you set forth, yet be ever so thankful for whatever you decide to give is quite alarming. To expect a teacher, giver of grace, a provider, & protector simply b/c you believe you deserve it.
The irony of it all is most of these teachers will include some form of prayer, manifesting, or universal entreaties. Ultimately seeking a blessing, gift, or tibute in the form of a man/companion. All while believing they are doing the man a favor by accepting him.