Anything overdone is counterproductive, but if we do not communicate our feelings we can not expect praise, apology, nor discussion. If we are searching for these things, communication is a great place to start.
There is no perfect time to address difficult things. Lean in, express your thoughts and emotions and listen with empathy to work towards growth for all involved.
‘Spread joy and good cheer’ …. Not a bad way too operate. Wishing those who wear a smile luck and gratitude in their quest to spread it and those who could use a smile… I hope one finds its way to you.
Judgment is a human instinct we all have. “Don’t judge” is impossible. Work hard to realize when moments of judgement can be and are flawed and invest time with genuine curiosity to learn more about people and the world around us.
Embrace the journey. Work hard to be present. Try not to ignore red flags. Allow yourself to enjoy the good. Prepare as much as you possibly can. Never give up.
Regardless of any perception, it almost never happens overnight. Situations we perceive are the result of compounded energy over time. The more dramatic the situation, usually the more energy and more time it requires.