A mother who keeps her kids away From the father without a court order to do so is as abusive as a child molester.
I can’t think of many occasions where fathers are consistently keeping their kids away from their mother.
They know that this is damaging.
Having a big heart really is a blessing & curse 🧘🏾♀️ … sometimes I get upset with myself and really be wanting to violate BAD 😩 but I can’t cause I knew better & ignored it each time .
As I’ve gotten older I’m truly grasping what the statement “do you want to be right or do you want to be loved” actually means. The biggest hurdle to developing true community and intimacy for most people on an interpersonal level is reaching a place of understanding.
Real talk, to my solo travelers. How did you mentally prepare the first time you took a solo trip, where did you go and for how long? I would like to do a trip but I’m a little nervous.
Their trauma is not your problem. Don’t make it your problem to fix either. You will learn early what your partner went through. Their triggers will kick their insecurities into high gear. Your confidence alone might be a trigger. Dealing with insecure ppl is a strong no.
I am evolving as a person. The “me” version of today is different from the “me” version of a year ago. The growth I’ve seen within myself brings me endless joy & I tell myself “thank you” — for not staying stagnant, for not giving up, and for continuously bettering myself.