You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.
My question is to what end? Okay you get her number, talk, go on few dates on you, she comes to your house and you guys sleep together and 2weeks later you guys no longer talk again then it’s onto the next one. Omo no be life o.