My county has lost so many young teens from this. We are constantly hearing about another teen girl disappearing and trafficked to Seattle for sex work. Even when caught and a girls mother pleaded to not release her because she’d run back to her pimp (At 15) and she needed treatment - the judge here let her go anyways and she ran off again. It’s affecting so many of us in surrounding counties
Ashley,
I watched the video. I saw you crying while processing that world tilting news, and I heard your husband’s response. While you were sobbing, he said “at least we know you can get pregnant” and continued talking about aborting the baby. That moment felt so cold and disconnected. It didn’t look like he was sitting in the grief with you, it looked like he was already moving past it while you were still breaking! It looks like this isn’t what you truly wanted and now you’re suffering - as someone whose been there it’s heavy!
As someone who was once pressured into an abortion I didn’t want in an abusive marriage, that kind of response hits hard. When a man minimizes your pain in the middle of one of the heaviest moments of your life, it can be a serious sign that he is not emotionally safe for you. It can make you feel alone even when he’s sitting right there.
I eventually found the courage to leave. It was terrifying, but God met me there. He gave me redemption I didn’t think was possible. Jesus didn’t shame me or rush me through my grief - He held me. He can do the same for you!!!!
Ashley, if that moment in the video reflects how he handles your pain - if you feel dismissed, rushed, or emotionally alone while carrying this, please know you don’t have to stay in that place. You can and SHOULD reach out to safe family or friends (I wish I had so much earlier). You can talk to a counselor or pastor who will actually sit with your grief instead of minimizing it.
You are allowed to protect your heart!
There is real redemption and healing on the other side of this. Jesus has His arms wide open for you. He sees the weight you’re carrying and the pain you’re walking through. Run to Him. Lean on people who will tell you the truth and walk with you through the pain instead of trying to fast-forward past it.
You are not alone, even if it feels that way right now. Emotional abuse is just as damaging, if not more, as physical! I dont know what goes on behind closed doors, but from what I can see - he doesn’t seem safe for you: please run! Please seek safety for your heart and soul!
Praying for you!
Your son is made whole in the Kingdom of God.
Ashley,
I watched the video. I saw you crying while processing that world tilting news, and I heard your husband’s response. While you were sobbing, he said “at least we know you can get pregnant” and continued talking about aborting the baby. That moment felt so cold and disconnected. It didn’t look like he was sitting in the grief with you, it looked like he was already moving past it while you were still breaking! It looks like this isn’t what you truly wanted and now you’re suffering - as someone whose been there it’s heavy!
As someone who was once pressured into an abortion I didn’t want in an abusive marriage, that kind of response hits hard. When a man minimizes your pain in the middle of one of the heaviest moments of your life, it can be a serious sign that he is not emotionally safe for you. It can make you feel alone even when he’s sitting right there.
I eventually found the courage to leave. It was terrifying, but God met me there. He gave me redemption I didn’t think was possible. Jesus didn’t shame me or rush me through my grief - He held me. He can do the same for you!!!!
Ashley, if that moment in the video reflects how he handles your pain - if you feel dismissed, rushed, or emotionally alone while carrying this, please know you don’t have to stay in that place. You can and SHOULD reach out to safe family or friends (I wish I had so much earlier). You can talk to a counselor or pastor who will actually sit with your grief instead of minimizing it.
You are allowed to protect your heart!
There is real redemption and healing on the other side of this. Jesus has His arms wide open for you. He sees the weight you’re carrying and the pain you’re walking through. Run to Him. Lean on people who will tell you the truth and walk with you through the pain instead of trying to fast-forward past it.
You are not alone, even if it feels that way right now. Emotional abuse is just as damaging, if not more, as physical! I dont know what goes on behind closed doors, but from what I can see - he doesn’t seem safe for you: please run! Please seek safety for your heart and soul!
Praying for you!
Your son is made whole in the Kingdom of God.
Ashley,
I watched the video. I saw you crying while processing that world tilting news, and I heard your husband’s response. While you were sobbing, he said “at least we know you can get pregnant” and continued talking about aborting the baby. That moment felt so cold and disconnected. It didn’t look like he was sitting in the grief with you, it looked like he was already moving past it while you were still breaking! It looks like this isn’t what you truly wanted and now you’re suffering - as someone whose been there it’s heavy!
As someone who was once pressured into an abortion I didn’t want in an abusive marriage, that kind of response hits hard. When a man minimizes your pain in the middle of one of the heaviest moments of your life, it can be a serious sign that he is not emotionally safe for you. It can make you feel alone even when he’s sitting right there.
I eventually found the courage to leave. It was terrifying, but God met me there. He gave me redemption I didn’t think was possible. Jesus didn’t shame me or rush me through my grief - He held me. He can do the same for you!!!!
Ashley, if that moment in the video reflects how he handles your pain - if you feel dismissed, rushed, or emotionally alone while carrying this, please know you don’t have to stay in that place. You can and SHOULD reach out to safe family or friends (I wish I had so much earlier). You can talk to a counselor or pastor who will actually sit with your grief instead of minimizing it.
You are allowed to protect your heart!
There is real redemption and healing on the other side of this. Jesus has His arms wide open for you. He sees the weight you’re carrying and the pain you’re walking through. Run to Him. Lean on people who will tell you the truth and walk with you through the pain instead of trying to fast-forward past it.
You are not alone, even if it feels that way right now. Emotional abuse is just as damaging, if not more, as physical! I dont know what goes on behind closed doors, but from what I can see - he doesn’t seem safe for you: please run! Please seek safety for your heart and soul!
Praying for you!
Ashley,
I watched the video. I saw you crying while processing that world tilting news, and I heard your husband’s response. While you were sobbing, he said “at least we know you can get pregnant” and continued talking about aborting the baby. That moment felt so cold and disconnected. It didn’t look like he was sitting in the grief with you, it looked like he was already moving past it while you were still breaking! It looks like this isn’t what you truly wanted and now you’re suffering - as someone whose been there it’s heavy!
As someone who was once pressured into an abortion I didn’t want in an abusive marriage, that kind of response hits hard. When a man minimizes your pain in the middle of one of the heaviest moments of your life, it can be a serious sign that he is not emotionally safe for you. It can make you feel alone even when he’s sitting right there.
I eventually found the courage to leave. It was terrifying, but God met me there. He gave me redemption I didn’t think was possible. Jesus didn’t shame me or rush me through my grief - He held me. He can do the same for you!!!!
Ashley, if that moment in the video reflects how he handles your pain - if you feel dismissed, rushed, or emotionally alone while carrying this, please know you don’t have to stay in that place. You can and SHOULD reach out to safe family or friends (I wish I had so much earlier). You can talk to a counselor or pastor who will actually sit with your grief instead of minimizing it.
You are allowed to protect your heart!
There is real redemption and healing on the other side of this. Jesus has His arms wide open for you. He sees the weight you’re carrying and the pain you’re walking through. Run to Him. Lean on people who will tell you the truth and walk with you through the pain instead of trying to fast-forward past it.
You are not alone, even if it feels that way right now. Emotional abuse is just as damaging, if not more, as physical! I dont know what goes on behind closed doors, but from what I can see - he doesn’t seem safe for you: please run! Please seek safety for your heart and soul!
Praying for you!
@unhealthytruth@LeeKurtiss@grok@nypost@McJuggerNuggets Can you actually send me a link? My daughters and I are bookworms and I think it would be a great read and way for them to see the truth. They know my story, from my perspective, but to hear from a survivor would be so good! 🥹 Sending all my love!
TO JESSES WIFE,
It’s not to late to leave this loser! Any man whose first response (or one of them) is “at least we know you can get pregnant” while you sit there processing very heavy news… is a LOSER! As someone who fled an abusive marriage after my (ex) husband pressured me into an abortion I didn’t want - you can run! You can leave! You can rebuild! You can have redemption! Dump this dead beat, seek truth, Jesus and redemption! Jesus will have his arms open for you! Lean and run to your family! Tell them the truth! It’s clear by this man’s behavior he’s not safe for you emotionally or spiritually (maybe even physically). Run honey… run!!!!
TO JESSES WIFE,
It’s not to late to leave this loser! Any man whose first response (or one of them) is “at least we know you can get pregnant” while you sit there processing very heavy news… is a LOSER! As someone who fled an abusive marriage after my (ex) husband pressured me into an abortion I didn’t want - you can run! You can leave! You can rebuild! You can have redemption! Dump this dead beat, seek truth, Jesus and redemption! Jesus will have his arms open for you! Lean and run to your family! Tell them the truth! It’s clear by this man’s behavior he’s not safe for you emotionally or spiritually (maybe even physically). Run honey… run!!!!
Lmfao fanaticism? 🤣😭 girl you’re lost. Seek some Jesus. So you were fine with her until she mentioned she survived an abortion and chose forgiveness? She isn’t even posting a link of her book to sell in this thread or anywhere I saw on her page. I wouldn’t have even known until YOU came into MY thread 🤣🤭 the demons really come out when you mention Jesus! 😎🤭
@unhealthytruth@LeeKurtiss@grok@nypost@McJuggerNuggets People have entirely to much time on their hands. Life matters! You matter! Every child ever aborted matters! Some day I pray the world remembers that again. Jesus can’t come soon enough 😭