SeokJin Stan, but the other 6 are close seconds. I’m way over 18, stop asking 😭😂 I’ll follow back, just give me a minute 💜. @PatriciaRineair is my backup
@ProjectFearX You just know Bodvach is just in the castle chilling, startled out of his haunting to his name being screamed, wondering why the h3ll are all of these people screaming my name and don’t even want anything….. @DakotaLaden@ChelseaLaden@Alex_Schroeder4@Tanner_Wiseman
I SWEAR TO FUCK...
The constant infantilization of BTS members is FUCKING exhausting. The idea that talking about sex or being sexy "doesn't suit" them is nothing more than a projection of personal discomfort onto grown men who have every right to express themselves however they choose.
The sheer absurdity of think pieces debating whether sex "suits" them highlights just how deeply some people refuse to let these men engage with normal human topics. This isn’t about BTS—it’s about the insecurities of those who can’t handle the fact that their image of BTS doesn’t align with reality.
But let’s be real—this conversation wouldn’t even be happening if BTS weren’t Asian men. There is a clear racial double standard at play. Western male artists of the same age openly explore sex, desire, and relationships in their music without anyone questioning whether it “suits” them. No one writes essays debating whether Harry Styles, The Weeknd, or Shawn Mendes talking about sex is “appropriate.” Yet when BTS do it, suddenly people lose their fucking minds. The infantilization of Asian men in the global media has long been a problem, and the refusal to see BTS as fully realized adults—capable of love, passion, and intimacy—is just another example of that.
BTS are adults. They have been writing about love, relationships, and desire for years, yes, even way before chapter 2 *gasp!!! gird your loins*. Reducing them to some sanitized, non-threatening version of masculinity because you personally struggle with discussions around sex and relationships is not only unfair, but frankly, fucking ridiculous.
Boxing them in because you can’t reconcile your own issues with intimacy isn’t their problem—it’s yours. And if you’re holding them to a different standard than their Western counterparts, then it’s time to ask yourself why.