I don’t feel the need to pounce at any opportunity for connection because I’ve lived enough life to see what desperation gets you. The math doesn’t change so I won’t cheat myself out of the quality I deserve to satiate a passing whim.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.