Don’t become a philanthropist online while your own family is struggling offline.
Help others, but your responsibilities should not suffer because you want to impress people online.
Charity begins at home. ❤️
As you're feeding people online, I hope your family members are not hungry offline oooo. Because if you later have cancer, na your family go first care for you.
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Until you are productive, please don't produce children.
Having children is not just about being able to give birth. It is about being able to provide, protect, educate, nurture and raise them responsibly.
You don't need to be rich before having children, but you should have some level of stability, responsibility and a plan.
Because love may produce the child, but responsibility raises the child.
As a man, have money oo, ensure to have a stable source of income before you marry, "love alone" does not sustain marriage.....love thrives when provision keeps flowing and moneybox the fuel for provision.
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A man saw a viral story on X and believed every word.
He shared it, defended it and even sent money to the person involved.
Days later, he discovered the entire story was fabricated.
The person wasn't seeking help. He was seeking impressions.
That day, he learnt that not every viral post is true.
Not every emotional story is genuine.
Not every confident reply is wisdom.
On X, people are fighting for attention.
Read everything. Enjoy what you can. But verify before you believe.
Your emotions shouldn't be someone else's monetization strategy.
@AskNugwa if you believe everything you see on X, you may eventually pay the price for someone else's impression-hunting.
Your job is to recognize the 1% that is real.
Some people transfer responsibility when confronted with uncomfortable truth.
Blaming the existence of temptation instead of teaching self-control.
We cannot build a decent society by removing everything that might tempt people to do wrong. We build it by teaching people that what belongs to another remains another’s, whether they have plenty or little.
If your neighbour’s prosperity becomes the excuse for your child’s dishonesty, the problem isn't the neighbour's kitchen.
It is the moral compass at home.
My neighbours set a trap for a thief who had been sneaking into their kitchen to steal food whenever they were away.
Yesterday was a public holiday, so everyone was at home.
One of the guys came out of their flat, locked the door and left. Just five minutes after he left, their next-door neighbour’s son went through the backyard and entered the flat through the kitchen window.
The moment he got inside, the other guy, who was still in the house, grabbed him and held him down.
The guy who had gone out returned shortly after, and they called everyone outside.
The boy’s father was furious and said they should hold the mother responsible.
“I’m not always around. His mother is the one training them,” he said.
The mother, clearly annoyed, confronted the guys.
“You people are the ones spoiling my children! Why will young guys have plenty of things in their house that will be attracting other people’s children?”
Everyone just stood there in shock...
@kenkenlewu That mindset is dangerous. A child stealing because he sees what others have is a parenting issue, not the victim’s fault. Having food or valuables in your home doesn't give anyone the right to take them.
Imagine spending your life funding a woman's lifestyle while she gives you nothing but sex and stress in return.
Is this how you want to live the rest of your life?
You can pour your whole heart into the wrong person and still watch everything you gave leak away.
Learn to recognize who deserves your TIME, ENERGY, LOVE and TRUST.
Not everyone deserves access to you.
Inflation has made responsible men look irresponsible.
A man can be working hard, paying bills, supporting family and still look like he isn't doing enough.
The problem isn't always laziness. Sometimes, the cost of living is simply outrunning income.
As a Nigerian, don't depend on just one stream of income.
Earn. Save. Invest. Build something on the side.
One income can pay the bills. Multiple income streams can give you breathing space.