my bestfriend told me “there is no point in arguing with someone who does not have an open mind. people with a closed minded mentality will never look at all the variables being presented, just the ones that benefit them” & I’ve never heard anything more true in my life
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South Africa please help find Amanda Khambule, she sent a voice note in distress to one of her family members that she’s being followed.
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Please reshare, women of South Africa are under siege unfortunately we don’t have a government. This can’t be normal! It’s business as usual to the GNU yet they released 600 million of our taxes to protect illegal foreigners but with our children, sisters, mothers & citizens of this country they’re doing nothing!
I’m not a good person at all. Infact, I have the capability to be very bad given the right circumstances I just don’t feed into it too frequently. But one thing I am and will forever be, is kind. Self awareness is key, always.
When a father changes diapers, feeds the baby, gives baths, or gets up at 3 AM. He isn’t helping his wife, he is taking care of his own child and that’s called parenting.
I’ve witnessed imicimbi where the unemployed or ‘poor’ aunties get treated like they’re there to SERVE and benziwa izicaka so I can imagine a non-family member with the title “yi-helper yam ke le” in that kitchen full of hyenas.
Every Parent should watch this video.
Now I understand why that father followed his daughters to the toilet despite the backlash he faced.
We live in very dark times
A woman can calmly explain ten times that something makes her uncomfortable. Then, on the eleventh time, she snaps. And the man will only remember the eleventh time. For some reason, the first ten don’t make it into the male version of the story.
y’all think being a provider starts & ends with money 😭 baby money can pay bills, it cannot provide emotional safety, leadership, consideration or consistency.
White kids get married at 22, in the parents backyard, pool their finances together, get a townhouse, start a family, by 35 they are set for life.
You earn R40k, i earn R40k but because “indoda must” my R40k must do all the heavy lifting, then we wonder why there’s no progress.