I saw this video clip of eight dead children being taken for burial. From the reports I came across, their father allegedly killed all eight of them after their mother asked for a divorce.
Eight innocent children.
Children who had nothing to do with the problems between their parents. Children who should have been protected by both of them.
What kind of mindset makes a person look at his own children and decide that because his marriage is ending, their lives should end too?
This is beyond anger. Beyond heartbreak. Beyond a failed marriage. Whatever pain, rejection or rage a person may feel, there should still be a line that no human being crosses.
A relationship can end. A marriage can end. Someone can leave you. You can lose everything you thought you had.
But the children are not your property. They are not weapons to use against their mother. And they should never become victims of an adult conflict.
It is frightening to think that someone can carry so much rage and hatred that innocent children become targets.
We need to talk more seriously about domestic abuse, controlling behaviour, threats after separation and the warning signs that can appear when someone feels they are losing control.
No divorce is worth eight children’s lives.🤷♂️
Worse thing you’d do to yourself as a Man is pause your life for anybody
Or allow someone/something hinder your growth-flow for whatever reason.
Just keep going..
Anything that doesn’t align with that purpose is a distraction
Ahead ahead!
Some of us are lucky through marriage.
We are doing well but when we look at our own extended families, we do not see hope in case anything happens to us.
We only see hope in the extended families of our spouse.
Marriage can beak your circle of poverty.
And it can come from both ways.
Even if it mostly comes from the men.
But a woman's extended family can also break the circle of poverty from her man.
Even if the man may not be a direct beneficiary.
The fact that his wife is from a well to do home can save his kids.
Especially when he's dead.
AJD.
Never use divorce as a threat during an argument.
You may say it just to scare your spouse, but eventually they may start imagining a life without you.
Be careful with words you tell your partner when you are angry, because words cannot be taken back.
6 marriage rules that can prevent unnecessary damage:
1.Don't insult each other during arguments.
2.Don't threaten divorce when you're angry.
3.Don't involve family in every disagreement.
4.Don't use sex or money as a weapon.
5.Don't keep secrets that would destroy trust if discovered.
6.Don't let one bad day become an excuse to treat your spouse badly.
Marriage already has enough problems. Don't create new ones just because you haven't learned to control your emotions.
@DiscussingFilm Guy Ritchie was given knowledge of every possible future and the only one where humanity survives is the one with a new Guy Ritchie movie every six months.
Marriage will humble you because eventually your spouse will see you fail.
They will see you when you're broke, sick, stressed, insecure, unemployed, overweight, depressed about life or completely unsure about what to do next.
The question is not whether your spouse will ever see you at your lowest.
They will.
The real question is what kind of person they become when you are no longer impressive.
Anybody can love you when life is easy character is revealed when life becomes ugly.
Former Chelsea and Spain defender César Azpilicueta graduated from the PFA Business School yesterday. 🎓
Congratulations on achieving your Diploma in Global Football Sport Directorship, César 🤝
Take time today to listen to someone’s story. Really listen.
You may never know how much they need someone to hear them without judging them.
Give them hope. Remind them that life can still get better, that good people still exist, and that their current situation is not the end of their story.
Sometimes, a little kindness is enough to help someone believe in life again.🤷♂️
Poor men should marry poor women.
If that lady is from a very poor background as opposed to yours, leave her alone.
Go for women that are from fairly the same background as yours.
Poor couples should fight their way out of poverty.
They'll value what they have, more.
End.