a girl on tik tok just said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
I spent my whole life living for other people & being a people pleaser. I don’t care what anyone thinks about anything I do anymore bc I’m the only one who has to live with ME. as long as I’m happy that’s all that matters. I’m my only priority.
this isn’t a rehearsal, this is it. this is the only one life you have. you’re either going to live for you or live for other people & die with regret. I refuse.