Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously
let your final act of love be the silence that they always wanted. no more begging for their time, replies or effort. step back and let them feel the space where your love used to be. and you, heal.
I really hate seeing friends going thru tough times. If I see someone struggling I always reach out and not just with empty words but a full genuine heart. Mental health matters.
Somebody said, “One thing I love about God is, He'll bring you out of situations you got yourself into; and still not hold it against you”.
And I felt that!
If I'm being honest, half the things I went through are in fact because of me, my lack of discipline, not listening to my gut feelings, and my poor decision-making.