Abigail

GVSU ‘22

[Jason Helmes @anymanfitness]

Last year, my daughter got cut from her 7th grade volleyball team.

She made the first cut, and thought she had a good chance. But on the second and final cut, they called her name, and she put her head down and walked out to the car where her mom and I were waiting.

She opened the car door, sat down, and started bawling. It was so hard to watch. She wanted to be on that team more than anything. I thought she was good enough, but the coach didn't.

My heart went out to her. But we didn't sugarcoat things for her. We told her we understood how much it stings. I've been cut before. Her mom had been cut from sports before, too. It's an ego shot and a gut punch.

We told her to go ask the coach what she could work on for next year. The coach gave her good feedback. And told her she was the "first girl cut". Which sounded promising, but only added to the sting. She said to me, "If only I had been a little bit better and made a few more serves..."

We told her she had a few choices. She could let this be the end. Or she could use this as fuel and fire. And to use it as motivation to work hard to make the team next year.

For a solid year, she practiced 4-5 times per week minimum. She went to every camp, every practice session she could find, found a travel team she could play on, and spent her entire summer at camps, practices, or in our backyard smashing the volleyball against our house (and denting our siding lol).

She had her tryouts this week. In the first tryout, she unleashed her new jump serve and hit 20 straight volleyballs over the net. The coaches were stunned. She said all the coaches came up to her immediately in the first 5 minutes with their clipboards and said, "What's your name?"

They started using her as a demonstrator, saying "Hey, Brooklyn, can you show everyone how to do this?" Even over the returning starters.

I asked her how she did when she got back. "Hey, you've been around a lot of volleyball in the last year. How did you do? Were you in the upper half of the players?"

She's a humble girl. And she proudly said, "I was the best player on the court."

She made the team, obviously. I'm beaming as a father this week.

I told her how proud I was of her. But not just because she made the team, or she's a great player now. But because she didn't give up. She didn't cry about it (after that first day). She didn't ask mom and dad to go lobby for her to be on the team.

She got after it and worked hard for a full year, taking no breaks. Her other volleyball friends were for sure taking it easier. Chilling out and vibing during the summer. She was attending camps and practicing and getting better while they were relaxing.

Sometimes as a parent, you hope you're teaching your kids how to do things.

But this was a case where she taught me how to do things. 100%.

[sally darr @sallydarr]

you gain: one hour of sleep

you lose: the ability to walk to your car after work without thinking a man might murder you

[Porter @ItsRetrop]

imagine being old asf opening up snapchat seeing “56 years ago today…” and it’s just you blackout drunk

[eco sister @hiitaylorblake]

You can tell a lot about a person by the way they treat and connect with animals.

[worm @somethinglovely]

oops

[WABII @wabiithefirst]

hey (with intentions of getting iced coffee together)

[K E L L I @thatkelligirll]

im so ready for that crisp breathable weather + pumpkin patches +spooky season

[Ana Navarro-Cárdenas @ananavarro]

If you’re against abortion, don’t get one.
If you’re against contraception, don’t take any.
If you’re against same-sex relationships, don’t have one.
If you’re against same-sex marriage, don’t marry someone of same gender.

Do not impose your beliefs & religion on all Americans.

[Nick Viall @NickViall]

We are going in the wrong direction!

[jenlafren @jenlafren]

The most successful couple of Bachelor Nation #TheBachelor

[Zac Clark @zacwclark]

If you feel like shit and feel embarrassed about it, don’t. No one is perfect. Please ask for help. Too many people suffering in silence and ultimately taking their own lives…..1.800.273.8255 is the national suicide prevention lifeline….we got to love one another.

[ellie schnitt @holy_schnitt]

forever grateful, this year and every year, that my family does not do a 5k, play touch football, or do any kind of physical activity whatsoever on thanksgiving

[eco sister @hiitaylorblake]

Our pasture beholds a new queen💘

[Adrian College Women's Soccer @AdrianWSoccer]

This kid has been on 🔥 all 👏 season 👏 long 👏 Congrats, Kenna… well deserved!

[brennan @BrennanCaldwell]

we need a 3 day weekend:
1 for errands
1 for social activities
1 for staying in bed like we’ve got some Victorian wasting disease

[Angels Ancestors n Aimee 𓇼 @AimeeAscending]

Respectfully💕

[Kenna Mahoney⚽ @McKennaMahoney]

“Be the first to encourage and be the last to become discouraged” this saying has stuck with me a lot lately. Especially during my time away at camp and experiences that I have been apart of these past couple of months. Consider this approach, it makes a big difference!

[Abigail @PaigeAbbie]

@_sophielou i love & miss u so so much! i’m so happy i got to see you yesterday!!!

[Wandi @MandyCottrell]

Turns out it’s not gold at the end of the rainbow... just cows.... even better!!!